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| Wed 7 Sep 11, 5:13 PM John123123 UK(TN), 13 mths  |
As someone completely new to all of this (I mean zero experience), I am curious of the preferences of a Domme. Do they generally prefer someone with plenty of experience of being a sub, so that they know what is required of them? Or do they like the conversion process of a newbie to sub? Would love to hear your opinions! Thanks, John | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 5:17 PM Anneski UK(BA), 2 yrs  |
My opinion is that this sort of generalisation is pointless. As many dommes will probably like to be the first for a sub as will prefer the sub to have some idea of what might happen and how to act. As always, tis people first and label second.
Hope you have plenty of fun whichever type you find to serve Anneski | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 5:21 PM journerotica UK(GL), 18 mths |
Agreed. I have something of a preference for less experienced subs as I love their excitement and freshness, but have nothing against those with more experience. Other Dommes I know prefer experienced subs so it varies. And the person is so much more important than their experience. Visit my blog - www.journerotica.com | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 5:26 PM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs  |
Personally... I don't mind either way, as long he pleases me.
Whatever an experienced sub has learned may need to be unlearned when/if a different dominant accepts his services... it's not unusual for each dominant to like to impose their own service requirements on their sub, rather than adopting what he has already learned from another. If a sub has experience of certain activities it doesn't mean he will want to continue with them as before, nor does it mean that he will be any better/worse than anyone new to it. Whatever experience a sub has there will always be a learning curve (for both) when a new relationship begins.
@The_Coven / @The_Problem_Page, you might give the advice that someone needs. / I want the "Moon on a stick and the Stars suspended from bunting". / So many haystacks, so few needles! / Sorry is a meaningless word unless it is demonstrated, via actions or a change in behaviour, that it is meant. | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 5:36 PM subrobin UK(SO), 17 mths |
lightly seasoned with a nice galic sauce is best ....ROFL.. | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 5:46 PM Ms_Valentine UK, 9 yrs |
I wouldn't mind which as to my mind, every sub is as a newbie to me. This is because even if they have had experience of another Mistress or even Mistresses, they have not served me before and will come to me as though the are the proverbial blank sheet. I would expect them to rid themselves of old ways,ideas and expectations and be ready to learn how to please me. If any 'experienced' subs harped on about their old Mistresses which seems like bad form, I would assume they were incapable of moving on without baggage. I guess I would probably stop seeing them as life is too short to even feel for a moment that you are second best. A Fine Norfolk Domme. Mistress of @paulss My PD blog at http://mistress-keene.blogspot.com/ | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 5:55 PM Como11 UK(SL), 9 mths |
Thank you John... i am also a newbie sub/slave, brand newbie, looking for my first experiance. So your question and the informed answers have helped me along as well. Thank You everybody | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 6:08 PM Souci_X UK(BA), 5 yrs |
If I were a dominant thinking about dating me, I would have wanted to meet me four years ago  | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 6:26 PM tanken UK(NR), 2 yrs |
If I were a domme thinking of dating me I would have wanted to meet me forty years ago Happiness is a warm bum | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 6:34 PM SirOpenSource UK(E), 6 yrs    |
Yes but could you guarantee to still be with yourself now? SOS
The Titter group - for when you don't feel too serious. | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 6:34 PM Souci_X UK(BA), 5 yrs |
ha no way. |
