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| Wed 7 Sep 11, 9:55 AM AngelFingers1 UK(CH), 2 yrs   |
One of my subs will be "locked away" very soon! In the past I have only had subs in chastity of trust. But this young sub is struggling and has asked to be locked up as he might find it helpful.... Of course we have our own challenges unique to our situtation (like being a 90 minute drive apart, no previous experience, usually play only once a week, and probably a few more!!) There are some obvious things to consider, like building up the time locked away from short periods, careful hygiene, both holding a key maybe to start with before I retain both, possibly adjusting fit or model of device to suit, use of lubricants and so on.... Its the first time for both of us and I would like this thread to be a resource for anyone entering into an enforced chastity by device. I hope it will contain tips, hints, best practice gleaned from those of you who have experience. Thank you for your contributions. Angel Oh Yes....and the sun will set for YOU. | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 9:56 AM drifterboy UK, 2 yrs |
i look forward to reading some tips and advice as this is an area i apparently shall be moving into very soon. | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 10:01 AM DominaFire UK(RG), 3 yrs |
In my experience a few days is best at first whilst adjusting all thand spacers and rings etc. One sub ended up with quite a sore patch on one of his balls, so need to be careful to get sizing right. "Prick your finger on a spinning wheel but dont make a sound.
Drop of blood and now you're taken for all time" | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 10:15 AM Ciceros_ghost UK(WA), 7 yrs |
hmm, probably obvious but, why not lock him away with a numbered plastic locking clip? these can be removed by cutting through them, with your permission of course. personally my issue with CB XXXX devices is waking at around 5.30 with morning wood, so stiff it nearly tears my balls off. If i was wearing one long term, i'd suggest a device with some form of tube that allows it to swell but not be played with. Depends if you want chastity to include some form of torture or simply to put him out of action. The trouble with the former is .. it's fun.. for a day or so but not much fun for more than a week due to simple sleepnessness. other practical advice? keep his balls completely shaven. there's nowt more agonizing than constantly getting trapped hairs in the mechanism.
Edited 7 Sep 11, 11:45 AM by Ciceros_ghost | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 10:19 AM dougie159  UK(KA), 7 yrs   |
Some good advice ^^^^ above from DF. Most impotent is to get the right fit (which can take a bit of time & effort) & that's assuming you have the right device for the sub. If the fit is right, try it for a few days to make sure, 'things' can change over the course of a few days. Once sure, then go for it but maybe just a few days at a time building it up as time passes. One of the 'hardest' (excuse pun) times is at night with nocturnal erections (or attempts). Again, if you do go long term then that seems to ease 3-5 weeks in. i'm 57 days locked today but with prospect of release next week. My Lady just wanted to see/learn the effects of long term. She had planned about 6 weeks but me being me, i stuck my foot in it (along with the help of NON SYMPATHETIC ICers), hence still waiting (& hoping/praying). 273-797-178 Don't knock down fences until you know why they were put up. Edited 7 Sep 11, 10:24 AM by dougie159 | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 10:45 AM Lj_switch UK, 3 yrs |
From my own experience, take some time to get the device to fit comfortably ( all things are relative!) I developed a very nasty sore from the hinge on a CB3000 after a few days, subsequently have the CB6000S. I'm what is known in the chastity circles as a "grower" not a "shower", so the shorter tube is better, less conspicuous and more comfortable until things start to get excited ! Whilst using the CB3000, I did have a few days with the "points" fitted. Nocturnal erections became something to be truly feared, the pain was extreme, and being a masochist, this only served to make things worse by a sort of positive feedback until I reached screaming point. As I had no access to any keys, this was an experience I'd rather not repeat. Could be fun (of a sort*lol*) in a "tease and denial" context, but not for a long period. When I have been locked in, and My Lady is away from home, an emergency key is always somewhere in the house, and I would be given the location if it was required, via a phone call or text. When I have been away from home for a few days, I have a key hidden in my car, in a sealed, signed envelope, access to this again via phone call or text. Obviously in the case of a serious emergency, the plastic can be broken, the padlock sheared etc, but of course this is obvious and requires explanation. be a switch, double your fun | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 11:47 AM canedagain UK(SE), 5 yrs |
I'm not hugely experienced in this area. I have owned a CB3000 for some time and have played chastity games like locking myself up and posting the keys. A couple of months ago however I asked one of the Dommes I visit to lock me up at the end of a CP session. I was then to report back a week later for more CP and release. My Domme kept the key and I had no access, emergency or otherwise. It was a painful week. The base ring rubbed the skin behind my balls terribly and the corner edge of the padlock sometimes pinched the skin of my penis. To be fair that could only happen on the 3000 model, but worse were the nocturnal erections. Another disappointing element is I discovered I could pull my penis out of the back of the device which kind of made it pointless. I would like to add though that I did honour my Domme and I only pulled it out once, I did not masturbate and I suffered every erection. I would do this again but not with the 3000 and I would also take a lot more care regarding base ring size. One of the up sides of chastity play is you become very aware of your sexuality, you have a constant reminder of what is between your legs and how it's size, shape and even the position change through out the day. Have fun. | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 11:51 AM Mistressofmypretty UK(CF), 3 yrs |
We've used the plastic numbered padlocks in the past for mypretty's CB3000. They seem the best option all round and would be my strongest recommendation for the sake of safety. Cleaning doesn't seem to be a problem - with use of a shower and Qtips (I think). mypretty has worn a device for about a week when away from Me, but you need to build up to this - starting with wearing the device for just hours at a time and working upwards.
I've yet to be entirely satisfied with a device. my pretty has enjoyed the constant reminder of being locked away, the pain of night/early morning erections, and sadly the freedom to masturbate with the device on! Small penis The truth always comes out in the end and his punishement has been to never wear the device since. | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 2:46 PM HandyD UK(M), 6 yrs |
There's a ton of good stuff on the Tickleberry website. I've just started experimenting for the first time and so far I've found, shaving is essential, moisturiser is good as well - something plain like E45 or Simple, and baby oil for getting it on. | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 3:51 PM MisstressvsSolicedog UK(NN), 17 mths |
funny did i just hear the sound of a key going plop into a deep pond ! anyone else hear that ! Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish | ||
| 7 Sep 11, 4:18 PM canupleaseme UK(S), 3 yrs |
We love long term chastity play. I should say though that I don't make him wear it in bed, I got fed up with being woken up because he had a painful erection lol He has earnt my trust in the last 5 years so it works for us.
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