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miss_chief
Posted by miss_chief on Sat 27 Aug 11, 9:19 AM to miss_chief's blog.

It's funny how my life seems to have gone a full circle.

Around 8 or 9 years ago i had just come out of a crap relationship, He was lovely and still is, just the situation was crap. i decided to turn my back on 'this lifestyle' however fate had other ideas.

i ended up at Manchester munch and was 'made' to venture back out into the scene by Lord James.

At one of the munches i met dizziblonde and we got on like we had known each other for years. We started to go to fet clubs together and made friends with hazy, the three of us were inseparable.

The times we had are legendary, our regular trips over the border into Yorkshire and Nemises we could write books about, the trips back home following a snow plough on the M62 were bloody scary and the funniest ever.

Things happened, life and crap got in the way and the friendships were lost although never forgotten.

Recently me and dizzi have made contact again. Old crap and what happened has been discussed, it needed to be, but that's in the past now and whilst it's forgotten we are keeping it there as a gentle reminder of how crap can effect friendships.

We are venturing out back into the scene again now, ok we've attend the Bolton munch, however lots of other events have been planned and our gang seems to be growing. Our next planned outing is Lash and the gorgeous jenevieve will hopefully be coming with us, i hope that my other scene friends who have been there for me too, namely mirari and hazy will be able to make it too.

Yes i am still with my Master however He is an absolute star, our relationship is very different to any kind i have had in the past, He lets me out with my friends, He encourages me to have those friends and enjoy my life. Yes i do ask His permission to go out as i respect Him 100%, but the trust between us is there, unquestioned, He doesn't 'do scene' preferring to keep what we do between us, i respect that, however He doesn't feel the need to restrict my social life as long as His rules are obeyed when i am out.

So my life has come full circle, the old 'gang' is back, the subbie union is back :-) and hopefully even our trips over the border may be back if rumour is true.......watch out snow plough drivers we may be behind you :-D

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27 Aug 11, 9:39 AM
MisterBear
UK(WA), 8 yrs


miss_chief wrote:
Yes i am still with my Master however He is an absolute star, our relationship is very different to any kind i have had in the past, He lets me out with my friends, He encourages me to have those friends and enjoy my life. Yes i do ask His permission to go out as i respect Him 100%, but the trust between us is there, unquestioned, He doesn't 'do scene' preferring to keep what we do between us, i respect that, however He doesn't feel the need to restrict my social life as long as His rules are obeyed when i am out.

He's probably glad of the peace and quiet that comes with you having a night out. Although I suspect in the back of his mind he's wondering when he's going to get the call to bail you all out. ;-)

Can you tell I'm bored and have nothing better to do with my life?
Well nothing more important to do.
Well nothing I can be bothered doing to do.
And you get to suffer my writings because of it.

27 Aug 11, 9:48 AM
mirari
UK(WA), 9 yrs

really pleased that things are going well for you :) the next Lash sounds good.. looking forward to it :) xxx

‎"Be Yourself" is just about the worst advice you can give to some people

27 Aug 11, 10:30 AM
dizzi_blonde
UK(WN), 5 yrs

:) Its funny where life takes us sometimes, Its like the old saying if you trully love someone set them free if its ment to be they will find their way back to you.

The past 4 years have certainly had some twists and turns some good some bad but thats life isnt it.

I am so glad we got to sit down and chat, funny the things you discover isnt it, lies that are told, the trouble people will go to, to break friendships apart... Thats all in the past.

*Raises her can of coke* Here is to the past memories we have made and to the ones we will make in the future xxx

D*R*A*M*A -F*R*E*E- Z*O*N*E Please take your Bull Sh!t somewhere else. Thank you & have a nice day.

27 Aug 11, 10:31 AM
scarlettsamm
UK(BL), 6 yrs

gone full circle and grown....

room for a littleun ? xx

and Lady Stardust sang her songs, of.....
..............Darkness and Disgrace.

27 Aug 11, 10:37 AM
sub_princess
7 yrs
Please put the Derby Munch on your 'to do' list. You'd be most welcome :o)!!

spxx

miss_chief wrote:

We are venturing out back into the scene again now, ok we've attend the Bolton munch, however lots of other events have been planned and our gang seems to be growing.

Nothing changes if i don't let it begin with me. So i'm trying to change and i'm starting now.

27 Aug 11, 10:54 AM
dizzi_blonde
UK(WN), 5 yrs

scarlettsamm wrote:
gone full circle and grown....

room for a littleun ? xx

Of course ... squeeze in xxx

D*R*A*M*A -F*R*E*E- Z*O*N*E Please take your Bull Sh!t somewhere else. Thank you & have a nice day.

27 Aug 11, 11:51 AM
x_Lia_x
2 yrs
Happy days:)

No point flogging a dead horse!

27 Aug 11, 11:59 AM
celeste13
UK(SN), 6 yrs
Your blog is quite poignant for me, as I hope to be in a similar position myself next year, as I will be returning to live in Manchester (I have lived in the SW for the last 6 years).

I have fond memories of the Manchester munch, Lash, Lash for Lasses, SM Dykes and Nemesis.

Glad your full circle has meant that you can enjoy good times and lasting friendships again. :-)

c xxx

Like the moon, come out from behind the clouds! Shine.
There ain't no answer. There ain't gonna be any answer. There never has been an answer. That's the answer.

27 Aug 11, 12:34 PM
Ama_Sidero
UK(GU), 7 yrs


Have fun!!!!

@Play_Space - Next party is Friday, September 23 from 930 - 3 am. Info found here: http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/301137/0/... Road Trip to the Sea!!! Next tentatively planned in October.....Just elapsed...More info here:http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/305429/0/...

27 Aug 11, 4:27 PM
miss_chief
UK(M), 7 yrs

Thanks for the replies:

Mister Bear.....You are probably right about Master glad of the quite lol

mirari......it's a theme night, school days, so school girls it is :-)

scarletsamm.......you are already part of out gang hun xx

sub princess.....Derby's not too far and worth thre trip to see you ;-)x

celeste.......so we may have another member of the sub gang soon? x

And believe me we are having fun and intend to carry on having fun :-)

''You have enemies? Good. That means you've stood up for something, sometime in your life''
Winston Churchill

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