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Edited Mon 2 Jan 12, 2:00 PM by kinski

If they had to show a face pic to someone at the BBFC yours will be one of hundreds of thousands of faces they have seen and was probably just a quick split second look to make sure you were over the age of consent and probably forgotten about the second the pic was put down.

At the end of the day ................ It's night

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It may be that the identity proof required went nowhere and was only taken as insurance in case the pro-domme was required to prove at some point that the participants were over 18.

At the end of the day, you have two options: To worry about it, or to not worry about it. Whichever of these options you adopt will not affect whether the existence of the film comes back to haunt you.

If you make it into the public eye at some point, this will always be at the back of your mind and, hypnosis apart, I don't think there's anything you can do about that. It all depends on your character as to whether it affects you in a negative way.

The one thing I suggest you don't do is contact the pro-domme. This puts her on notice that she might be in possession of something which might be valuable one day. Most pro-dommes are trustworthy, but not all.

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Your face was not shown in the film,,

also the ID is for private records that would only be shown to police if the subject of your being underage, non consentaul, ( mainly were to come up)

Years ago i saw a porn mag with a guy in the absoulute spit image of me,,

i worked in a gay shop at the time even the customers there thought it was me,

only the difference appeared to comedown to a mole on the leg,

basicly dont worry so much about it,,

thier are thousands of porn actors whos name will never get noticed or even recognised running about

Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish

Blame it on the follies of youth.

ETA - To get the maximum benefit from this "excuse" I would advise you not to get too famous too quickly.

Edited 25 Aug 11, 4:31 PM by Mentor_2012

Yes, if you're going to be in the public eye then yes it is going to be a risk that someone could dig up this information. And remember it's not just the pre-shot confirmation at the BBFC you have to worry about, everybody else on that set knows who you are too.

The question is, what exactly are you going to do in the public eye that is going to cause someone to go digging. If you're going to be courting the tabloids for your 5 minutes then you can expect them to rake over your life with a fine tooth comb. If you're going to be a public politician then if you're going on a tub thumping moralistic crusade then expect someone to take an interest in trying to demonstrate that you're a hypocrite. So think hard about what it is you're going to do in the public eye and whose nose you might put of joint in the process. As long as you don't make any "enemies" then people likely won't give a shit.

That said plenty of "public" individuals have quite private personal lives because they don't go courting the press so the press simply don't care about them. What exactly do you know about Tony Robinson or Chris Morris's private life? That is a perfectly achievable route to a degree of privacy.

What is the possible outcome of being found out? That very much depends on what exactly you're famous for. Are you an actor? Then probably you don't get any new roles until it all blows over and everyone forgets about it. Are you a politician? Then you'll probably have to resign but if you're particularly high up, well connected or well liked I'm sure you'd likely end up with some cushy role thanks to nepotism. If you work for some large public facing organisation (the NHS, local council, a bank) then I'd imagine you'd lose your job for bringing the organisation into disrepute.

Those are all plausible outcomes but probably pretty unlikely unless you give people cause to go snooping in your life

Edited 25 Aug 11, 6:13 PM by AstronautMikeDexter

Worrying about 'what ifs' for the rest of your life will only give you an ulcer. Odds are that you can just bluff it / deal with it many years in the future if it should ever come up.

Things change, attitudes change - what you do today may become the norm in a few years - people may think you were ahead of your time.

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Edited 25 Aug 11, 4:30 PM by Shineecouple

Oh my god, from your body shot I want to get the film........

and 3. I wanted to adress the loosing a little bit of respect. I'm looking for my wand now to try to rectify this. We are none of us perfect, if you have a contract promising to be perfect, please let me borrow it and I will burn it for you. Elenor Roosevelt once said........ oh something like.... the "only person who can make you ashamed is yourself" (surely it's worth me looking up the exact quote!). You can choose to worry or not as someone else said and you can chosse to dwell on your shortcomings or your strengths, if we want you to be famous boy, choose your strengths...

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But seriously, you are only 26. Say you are slightly well-known in 20 years time. I have a feeling that the world will have changed even more than it has in the past 20 years. 20 years ago gay marriage, and openly gay MPs, and no-one giving a fuck, seemed an impossible dream.

I predict that this little film (if it ever comes to light, which it very probably wont) will be treated as what it is : an amusing, youthful escapade. And all the juniors at your office can enjoy looking at that incredibly hot body of yours and think "wow, that old buffer in the Director's office, he used to be gorgeous!"

I feel that you are worrying over nothing as you like many of Mine were wearing a mask...

hope this helps you deal with your dilemma