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How many of you are Dom's but also like 2 play sub (38)

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22 Aug 11, 7:29 PM
Muzzlehatch
UK(TN), 7 yrs

Depends how much I want to get into her knickers!

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22 Aug 11, 8:16 PM
TheGardener
UK(SG), 5 yrs

Elle_in_France wrote:

If you're kinky, you're kinky. You have a broad range of sexual interests, a curious mind, a fascination with unusual, deep, delicious, exquisite or extreme sensations, you have a fascination in power exchanges. Why, with all this, then limit yourself to just half of this wonderful spectrum?

Nail on the head, end of, and a life time to experience it to the full and then some

Apart from man, no being wonders at it's own existence - Schopenhauer

Edited 22 Aug 11, 8:25 PM by TheGardener

22 Aug 11, 8:49 PM
Lady_Susan
UK, 5 yrs

ColdHarbour wrote:

Lady_Susan wrote:
Er - I think it's a tiny bit more complex. I sub from time to time - not the least bit switchy - I don't mind the pain, but don't like the subbing bit - but I find it good grounding.

I can relate to that and it's not at all the same as being a fully-fledged switch. As you say, it is good grounding.

The way I see it, it's a bit like being an officer cadet in the army or whatever — putting yourself on the receiving end so you at least have some idea how that feels.

More about self-education than switching, in other words.

That's it, exactly.

When I want your opinion, I'll thrash it out of you.
Can you taste the grit between your teeth....

23 Aug 11, 10:54 AM
MistressRouge
UK(B), 6 yrs
£

I totally relate to this. I have been bound in rope, handed My own single-tail for a lil feel of it's lash, and have also had the pleasure of demanding a spanking. I have had the pleasure of a sharp cold blade across My flesh, and rather surprised that I pressed against it.

All from close friends, and I dont consider Myself a switch, its just playful bottoming when I am in the mood

It has also educated Me in the knowledge, that I am a Sadomasochist yum

ColdHarbour wrote:

I can relate to that and it's not at all the same as being a fully-fledged switch. As you say, it is good grounding.

The way I see it, it's a bit like being an officer cadet in the army or whatever — putting yourself on the receiving end so you at least have some idea how that feels.

More about self-education than switching, in other words.

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Edited 23 Aug 11, 11:01 AM by MistressRouge

24 Aug 11, 9:16 PM
Lady_Susan
UK, 5 yrs

MistressRouge wrote:
I totally relate to this. I have been bound in rope, handed My own single-tail for a lil feel of it's lash, and have also had the pleasure of demanding a spanking. I have had the pleasure of a sharp cold blade across My flesh, and rather surprised that I pressed against it.

All from close friends, and I dont consider Myself a switch, its just playful bottoming when I am in the mood

It has also educated Me in the knowledge, that I am a Sadomasochist yum

ColdHarbour wrote:

I can relate to that and it's not at all the same as being a fully-fledged switch. As you say, it is good grounding.

The way I see it, it's a bit like being an officer cadet in the army or whatever — putting yourself on the receiving end so you at least have some idea how that feels.

More about self-education than switching, in other words.

And gorgeous. A gorgeous Sadomasochist, that's what you are.

When I want your opinion, I'll thrash it out of you.
Can you taste the grit between your teeth....

25 Aug 11, 5:05 AM
angellover
UK(CM), 3 yrs

smilesoffun wrote:
Am a little confused to post. Infact confused full stop lol. I am getting the impression this is a taboo subject?

It's not a taboo subject as your free to talk and ask question's, if thats the only way to learn at times then ask away.

Be free to do what ever you want to be, I say. I respect them that admit what they are, who play about and have a laugh and the Dominates/Domees that try out the equipment/tools before they use them so thy know how it feels.

So what if people don't like it, some will - some won't, but thats like many things in life, never mind within D/s... we are all individuals, we have different needs, feelings and needs etc. I do try to respect everyones choice, however I may not like every thing they say or do, but who gives a dam!!!

At the end of the day you are what you are, but do you need a label to enjoy it? Do what you want to do as long as your open and honest about it.

Yes it might not be for some, as it is for others but I can not see how people can be so judgemental at times, but sadly I accept we are, as it's human nature. We meet people and judge them for how they act, dress and their sprite/vibes we pick up.

Trust me, there is many a 'so called' Doms/Domees around and 'more than you can ever think', that say to the world they are Dominate, Masters or Domee's, yet they swicth, cross dress, sub etc etc and don't have the balls to admit it as their scared of being judged or having others knowing what they really are.

You can not live your life and enjoy it, if you listen to what others say as their not living your life...

Your a long time dead and do you really want to say as you get old... "I wished I had"

I mean how many sub's have gone on a first meeting to meet a Dominate as that's what they said they were, but minutes after meeing them it's clear they are submissive. I have!!!

How many Domees's shout to the world they are Dominate yet go to other Masters/Dom's and get used on the cross and are so scared to get marked because they don't want others to know I know some too...

How many Dominates have had a first meetings where the submissives if they are submissive that is, that say 'I will do any thing' 'I can take pain' and then carn't...

To me at the end of the day it's all down to honesty as if you can not be honest to your self, how can you be honest to others...

The highest fences we have to climb, are those we have built within our mind

Edited 25 Aug 11, 5:08 AM by angellover

25 Aug 11, 5:26 AM
BooteDom
UK(NR), 6 yrs

I subbed for years and enjoyed every minute of it.Then discovered that I was a good Dom and have enjoyed every minute of that too.

I could still switch with the right person but I need the relevant mental connection to be there.It's quite complex as I find inflicting higher levels of pain on a female more difficult than on a male.I guess that is socialisation.

27 Aug 11, 3:14 PM
CherryPip
2 yrs
£

IndelibleMarker wrote:
I like switching as long as I can decide when, where and what happens...

But yes, I actually find switching quite relaxing.

Haha sure