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| Fri 19 Aug 11, 12:38 PM Souci_X UK(BA), 5 yrs   |
It is rather inevitable if you go to events that you will come across your partners ex's at some point. How do people normally cope with this? Do you avoid them, feel jealous, talk to them? Or do you just avoid any event where the ex may be? |
| 19 Aug 11, 12:42 PM Original_Rebel UK(CT), 10 yrs |
I'm more inclined to avoid my exes rather than someone elses lol. |
| 19 Aug 11, 12:43 PM playful_toy 23 mths |
In my mind I beat them.... unless...... they enjoy that... in which case.... I dont! |
| 19 Aug 11, 12:50 PM sassyslut US, 21 mths |
yes and many of them are good friendsd of mine ( usually meet them trough partner) is great fun to sit with partner's exs and trash talk him and complain about all the things he does, or hear stories of things he's done before. Ok yea we are odd i get it but honestly they are EX for a reason, if they wanted to be together they would and if they are friends and not hate each other then is all great. now there is acouple of the "bad" ex's and then is simply a polite how do yo do if they dont ignore us and we move along, no reason to be rude and the fact that they dont like each other well not my problem really.
Ladran Sancho!! seņal de que avanzamos. |
| 19 Aug 11, 12:56 PM Mister_Bear UK(TS), 5 yrs |
having meet one my my ex subs(kids mum) exs a few years ago , i must admit i was tempted to hit him, but i couldnt due to the amount of laffing i was doing as he got up and all but sprinted out the door
i never even got the chance to say hello
if the sane judge the insane ..........who judges the sane |
| 19 Aug 11, 12:58 PM Katier UK(WV), 2 yrs £ |
I think it would depend on the situation. In my case it's all 'vanilla' but I'm still kinda amicable with my ex and she brought her new partner to my daughters 18th. I have no problems, if anything I'm pleased for her, and he's a nice bloke so we just chatted - lol. |
| 19 Aug 11, 12:59 PM River_Deep UK, 6 yrs |
Wouldn't bother me at all so long as it wasn't making them uncomfortable. I am not into rubbing peoples noses in stuff, well unless they have been outright cunts and deserve it!! It is not what you say or do but the way you say or do it |
| 19 Aug 11, 2:03 PM ToakReon  UK(RH), 12 yrs |
How about? Oi! Mate! I think she's a pretty good shag myself, but she doesn't half squeel like a stuck piglet when I take a bullwhip to her. How was she for you?"
Toak *UPDATE* Model(s) for "how to" bondage photographs (and other bondage photographs) have now been found. Thank you to all who showed interest. |
| 19 Aug 11, 2:09 PM kinkyclover UK(NG), 4 yrs |
I wouldn't avoid them or any event they would be at. Were in a good strong relationship and any previous ones ended for a reason, so I have nothing to be jealous of. I would treat them like any other person I met. Its not begging....Its saying please very politely |
| 19 Aug 11, 3:49 PM JennyM UK, 4 yrs |
My partner's ex-domme has become a great and valued friend. Other ex-scene partners of his - I have yet to meet one I don't like and admire. I guess he just has wonderful taste in women.
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| 19 Aug 11, 4:37 PM El_Presidente UK(G), 4 yrs    |
Until your partner's ex is your ex's partner, take it from me - you haven't lived. "...Try as I like, a small crack appears in my diplomacy dyke." |
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