Thu 18 Aug 11, 11:57 AM
StrangeBoy
9 mths |
For us subs knowing what to say to a Domme is a real minefield, I am so conditions to saying 'Yes mistress' to my domme. I was shocked to walk into my spin class at my gym one day to find her taking the class, she said something to me during the class and without thinking I instictivly said 'Yes Mistress' she wasn't impressed 
I got a few funny looks as well.
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18 Aug 11, 12:06 PM
man_in_tyres
UK(RM), 22 mths
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It's one of those things I try and find out first of all.
When I meet a Domme for the first time it's usually in a public place and I allways ask how she would like me to address her in public . At the end of the day ................ It's night 
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18 Aug 11, 12:20 PM
dirtdogsteve
UK(WC), 4 yrs |
StrangeBoy wrote:
what do you say?
For us subs knowing what to say to a Domme is a real minefield, I am so conditions to saying 'Yes mistress' to my domme. I was shocked to walk into my spin class at my gym one day to find her taking the class, she said something to me during the class and without thinking I instictivly said 'Yes Mistress' she wasn't impressed
I got a few funny looks as well.
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Just bow head respectfully (and try not to get a hard on). Keep the gob shut
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18 Aug 11, 12:33 PM
Puddin_Von_Puss
UK(WA), 6 yrs
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StrangeBoy wrote:
what do you say?
For us subs knowing what to say to a Domme is a real minefield, I am so conditions to saying 'Yes mistress' to my domme. I was shocked to walk into my spin class at my gym one day to find her taking the class, she said something to me during the class and without thinking I instictivly said 'Yes Mistress' she wasn't impressed
I got a few funny looks as well.
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You'll actually find many of us don't like being called Mistress at all. Or Ma'am or Miss. You're right to ask about it rather than just decide that that's what you like to call someone and put that stamp on a Domme. Everyone is different, so ask the individual. It's the little things Dude, the little things.
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18 Aug 11, 12:35 PM
DominaFire
UK(RG), 3 yrs
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Agreed, no one but no one is allowed to call me any of those monikers as I hate them.
Puddin_Von_Puss wrote:
StrangeBoy wrote:
what do you say?
For us subs knowing what to say to a Domme is a real minefield, I am so conditions to saying 'Yes mistress' to my domme. I was shocked to walk into my spin class at my gym one day to find her taking the class, she said something to me during the class and without thinking I instictivly said 'Yes Mistress' she wasn't impressed
I got a few funny looks as well.
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You'll actually find many of us don't like being called Mistress at all. Or Ma'am or Miss. You're right to ask about it rather than just decide that that's what you like to call someone and put that stamp on a Domme. Everyone is different, so ask the individual.
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I'm gonna close my eyes and count to 10 and when I open them again, everything will make sense to me then
Your pain is my leisure!
"Eats shoots and leaves" or maybe "Eats, shoots and leaves"
"When the glitter smears and the wires appear"
"Grains of sand is all we are, crawling on our manic star"
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18 Aug 11, 12:38 PM
Made_in_Italy
UK, 2 yrs
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Puddin_Von_Puss wrote:
StrangeBoy wrote:
what do you say?
For us subs knowing what to say to a Domme is a real minefield, I am so conditions to saying 'Yes mistress' to my domme. I was shocked to walk into my spin class at my gym one day to find her taking the class, she said something to me during the class and without thinking I instictivly said 'Yes Mistress' she wasn't impressed
I got a few funny looks as well.
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You'll actually find many of us don't like being called Mistress at all. Or Ma'am or Miss. You're right to ask about it rather than just decide that that's what you like to call someone and put that stamp on a Domme. Everyone is different, so ask the individual.
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exactly that! 
I hate being called by anything else than my name (minus I am in a scene).
and yes I would not be impressed neither by a sub who cannot keep his mouth shut.
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18 Aug 11, 12:41 PM
Ama_Sidero
UK(GU), 7 yrs
  
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Made_in_Italy wrote:
Puddin_Von_Puss wrote:
StrangeBoy wrote:
what do you say?
For us subs knowing what to say to a Domme is a real minefield, I am so conditions to saying 'Yes mistress' to my domme. I was shocked to walk into my spin class at my gym one day to find her taking the class, she said something to me during the class and without thinking I instictivly said 'Yes Mistress' she wasn't impressed
I got a few funny looks as well.
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You'll actually find many of us don't like being called Mistress at all. Or Ma'am or Miss. You're right to ask about it rather than just decide that that's what you like to call someone and put that stamp on a Domme. Everyone is different, so ask the individual.
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exactly that!
I hate being called by anything else than my name (minus I am in a scene).
and yes I would not be impressed neither by a sub who cannot keep his mouth shut.
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+1
Though I used to work with guy who used to say "Yes, Mistress" when I was giving him instructions. I think he was just fishing.....
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18 Aug 11, 12:42 PM
prettyPETunia
UK(WS), 4 yrs
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Why chose that name you got for yourself then?*sniggers*
Marmitetress wrote:
Agreed, no one but no one is allowed to call me any of those monikers as I hate them.
Puddin_Von_Puss wrote:
StrangeBoy wrote:
what do you say?
For us subs knowing what to say to a Domme is a real minefield, I am so conditions to saying 'Yes mistress' to my domme. I was shocked to walk into my spin class at my gym one day to find her taking the class, she said something to me during the class and without thinking I instictivly said 'Yes Mistress' she wasn't impressed
I got a few funny looks as well.
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You'll actually find many of us don't like being called Mistress at all. Or Ma'am or Miss. You're right to ask about it rather than just decide that that's what you like to call someone and put that stamp on a Domme. Everyone is different, so ask the individual.
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18 Aug 11, 1:07 PM
stripped_warrior
UK(SE), 3 yrs
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Have to admit, unless I'm introduced to someone as something else I tend to default to Ma'am, considering it's the term of respect I use for female officers. I don't like to use Mistress informally, without knowing the individual. Reality is a perception, normality an opinion.
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18 Aug 11, 1:25 PM
DominaFire
UK(RG), 3 yrs
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Ask @Corwin it's his fault and a joke
axlsub wrote:
Why chose that name you got for yourself then?*sniggers*
Marmitetress wrote:
Agreed, no one but no one is allowed to call me any of those monikers as I hate them.
Puddin_Von_Puss wrote:
StrangeBoy wrote:
what do you say?
For us subs knowing what to say to a Domme is a real minefield, I am so conditions to saying 'Yes mistress' to my domme. I was shocked to walk into my spin class at my gym one day to find her taking the class, she said something to me during the class and without thinking I instictivly said 'Yes Mistress' she wasn't impressed
I got a few funny looks as well.
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You'll actually find many of us don't like being called Mistress at all. Or Ma'am or Miss. You're right to ask about it rather than just decide that that's what you like to call someone and put that stamp on a Domme. Everyone is different, so ask the individual.
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I'm gonna close my eyes and count to 10 and when I open them again, everything will make sense to me then
Your pain is my leisure!
"Eats shoots and leaves" or maybe "Eats, shoots and leaves"
"When the glitter smears and the wires appear"
"Grains of sand is all we are, crawling on our manic star"
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18 Aug 11, 1:49 PM
Reversed
23 mths
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StrangeBoy wrote:
what do you say?
For us subs knowing what to say to a Domme is a real minefield, I am so conditions to saying 'Yes mistress' to my domme. I was shocked to walk into my spin class at my gym one day to find her taking the class, she said something to me during the class and without thinking I instictivly said 'Yes Mistress' she wasn't impressed
I got a few funny looks as well.
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Wonderful
More threads please  Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.
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