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| Sun 14 Aug 11, 11:23 PM northern_light UK, 7 yrs  |
(reposted from weblog as I thought more appropriate here) We have been doing some experimenting and work with trigger words. Very simple stuff at the moment but as there are times when I may wish to use these in public I wanted to know if it is possible to turn these verbal commands into physical ones. If so is it a matter of just using the physical command at the same time as the trigger word until this is reinforced enough for it to work on its own? Thanks. "Absinthe is the aphrodisiac of the self. The green fairy who lives in the Absinthe wants your soul." ~Dracula by Bram Stoker | ||
| 14 Aug 11, 11:29 PM Incandescence UK, 3 yrs |
I'd have thought it would be. I don't have any experience of this type of conditioning in BDSM or with adults but it should work in the circumstances you've described. In the beginning god created man ... that was his first mistake ... everybody knows the lady should always come first | ||
| 15 Aug 11, 12:06 AM jemima101 UK(NE), 10 mths |
Sir has managed it... Thoughts ,musing, ideas,http://itsjustahobby.wordpress.com/ | ||
| 15 Aug 11, 9:27 AM misunderstoodslave UK(OL), 2 yrs |
Oh, I thought it said a question about Tiger Woods. Can't delay another day getting those reading glasses. | ||
| 15 Aug 11, 10:11 AM MrEintheuk UK(GU), 7 yrs  |
In "nilla" circles I think what you are referring to is NLP - Neuro Linguistic Programming. This is a fascinating subject. In order to "condition" the subject/sub to respond in certain ways there is an element of Pavlov, eg just before your sub reaches orgasm make her count from 1 to 10 and that she can come at 10. Keep this up and you'd be amazed at the result of a whispered count can do be it in the playroom, in Sainsbury's or in the pub ;o) | ||
| 15 Aug 11, 2:57 PM Helen_Back UK(MK), 4 yrs |
totally off topic, I know I am tired but read that as question about tiger woods! | ||
| 15 Aug 11, 3:06 PM babygirl_princess 10 mths |
What is the question about Tiger Woods again? | ||
| 15 Aug 11, 3:09 PM TheSilverFox  UK(GU), 2 yrs    |
You are talking about forming a physical anchor... best done by a kinesthetic sensation as appears to be the most powerful. However there is no real reason why any sensory stimulant shouldn't be used.. A road sign that is learned. is a version of this.
(Can I just say that Anchors are just a small part of NLP and there is considerably more to it than is normally talked about. "The art of being a gentleman is knowing when not to be..." | ||
| 15 Aug 11, 6:37 PM Mistress_Avralivia UK(RG), 4 yrs £ |
More like pavlovian conditioning, I would say. It can and does work, have done it to others and actually had it done to me a few years back.
Senno Ekto Gamat | ||
| 15 Aug 11, 6:39 PM Souci_X UK(BA), 5 yrs |
It does work for some I am sure, but bear in mind it can often be easy to fake just to keep the other person happy. | ||
| 15 Aug 11, 6:44 PM totallycoverme UK(M), 4 yrs |
my goodness i must be tired! i thought this was a question about tiger woods! it's summat to do with a pavlovian response It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice |
