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11 Aug 11, 11:33 AM
Souci_X
UK(BA), 5 yrs

cuffedboi wrote:
stuck in a vanilla relationship and want a bit of fun on the side,

hmmm not really 'ok' imo

11 Aug 11, 12:14 PM
mornington_crescent
UK(CB), 3 yrs

An online-only relationship, with no potential for moving into RL, doesn't sound like a much of a good deal for the woman. Unless she was also travelling a lot, or only looking for a secondary.

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11 Aug 11, 12:22 PM
eloesa
UK(SO), 7 yrs

Do you actually travel all day, every day? Even if you stay away could you not invite your lady around to come with you even once in a while? If you want a consistent relationship as you say you do, I can't imagine anyone wanting to go for it unless there eventually was the hope of a(real life) future in it , or that they were already in a relationship themselves and needed a bit of fun on the side... just my take on it <shrugs>

regards,

elo

jasbound wrote:
Online

I know this is an emotive subject and I don't want to get involved in a discussion about what's "real" and what's not.

I travel and i want a consistent steady relationship. Seems to me online is the only way, unless I visit a pro in every city (which does not help the need for a developing relationship)

Most people here seem to be against online, but I have a soft spot for IC, having had a couple of very satisfying relationships that started here.

Can anyone recommend other suitable sites for online D/s. I'm not interested in fighting off scammers and cam girls.

Thanks in advance

11 Aug 11, 1:21 PM
masterian4you
UK(BH), 15 mths

Have you tried Fetlife, or Kink Arena,

11 Aug 11, 1:26 PM
wonderer
UK, 5 yrs

If you don't fancy online, maybe you cuold have "a girl in every port"?

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"Imagination is more important than knowledge" (Albert Einstein)
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Edited 11 Aug 11, 1:27 PM by wonderer

11 Aug 11, 1:32 PM
jemima101
UK(NE), 10 mths

jasbound wrote:
Online

I know this is an emotive subject and I don't want to get involved in a discussion about what's "real" and what's not.

I travel and i want a consistent steady relationship. Seems to me online is the only way, unless I visit a pro in every city (which does not help the need for a developing relationship)

Most people here seem to be against online, but I have a soft spot for IC, having had a couple of very satisfying relationships that started here.

Can anyone recommend other suitable sites for online D/s. I'm not interested in fighting off scammers and cam girls.

Thanks in advance

i met my Master on a swinging site,there are quite a few people into D/s there,and you do tend to avoid the more "extreme" people(not in kink but in bad manners on your knees bitch kind of extremity)

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2 Sep 11, 11:10 PM
Goddess_Asphyxia
UK, 3 yrs

I rather like to have on-line obedience......

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2 Sep 11, 11:16 PM
Persia_Porsche
UK(EH), 3 yrs

Agree with previous poster - there must be some times that you would be able to also meet up.

It all comes down to effort you're prepared to put it. It doesn't matter how much you travel, you must spend your nights somewhere?

I think most who are prepared to put in the effort to achieve a successful online relationship would hope that real life meets would become an option as well.

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