Posted by Smartarse
on Tue 8 Feb 05, 12:54 AM to Smartarse's blog.
Should Doms share?
There are several reasons why a Dom should blog. These are:
1) To be visible to prospective subs.
2) So that prospective subs can see the Dom.
3) So that the Dom can be noticed (by prospective subs)
I blog therefore I am. At least, I blog on IC and become visible. I remind people I exist. I attract them with my wit. I've started calling this "peacocking." *
It more or less says this on the About IC page. Okay, so it doesn't say that, but it does say something along the lines of: finding a partner is more effective if you take an active part.
As to, should Doms share their innermost thoughts? Let me just reread my earlier blogs.... Oh yes, ha ha. That's got me in stitches. Not. Hil-ar-ious. That's bollocks. Why the f### did I say that? Oh please! Okay, where's the delete?
The short answer is probably: no. But for the sake of all you interested ladies I shall risk betraying my sex and reveal the real innermost thoughts of all men:
1) Where is the food?
2) I wonder if Keira Knightley wears knickers.
3) Big fart coming.
4) Football's on soon.
There may be others but they are all variations.
So if Doms can't share their thoughts, that leaves them with the meandering whimsy route. Which pretty much sums up this post.
Finally, there is this idea floating around that Doms should retain an air of mystery. That, by withdrawing and being silent, they can gain more respect. I thought I'd try this for a couple of days and see how it worked out for me. Did you notice me being mysterious? That's what I thought. So back to blogging it is then...
* If by accident I have stumbled across a strange and forgotten fetish called peacocking and reused its name, I'm sorry - I didn't know.
| 8 Feb 05, 1:00 AM mrs_whipkick UK(CB), 8 yrs  |
* If by accident I have stumbled across a strange and forgotten fetish called peacocking and reused its name, I'm sorry - I didn't know. pea cocking is that Dom/Dommes shoving peas up poor lil male subbies. nice to see you back from you few days absence, i missed you. smiles. and 5) i think was how many woman they shagged and when thier last shag was, | ||
| 8 Feb 05, 1:09 AM Smartarse UK(CM), 7 yrs |
Frozen, dried or mushy? alex_10m | ||
| 8 Feb 05, 1:22 AM PaganDiver UK, 8 yrs |
Nope 'pea-cocking' is an old Somerset expression meaning to toy with a girls clit with the end of your knob! | ||
| 8 Feb 05, 1:28 AM mrs_whipkick UK(CB), 8 yrs |
frozen of course. pagan think mine is better lol | ||
| 8 Feb 05, 11:17 AM redbrat UK, 8 yrs |
i tried that alex..well tried to be a strangely mysterious enigmatic subbie...just to see what i could attract..nil zilch niet nothing...ended up just being called strange! Mind you wont use the tag line "i vant to be alone" anymore ...dont think that helped very much.... glad to see you back and bloggling!! | ||
| 8 Feb 05, 12:12 PM tryst UK, 8 yrs |
I thought pea-cocking was shooting dried peas at male genitalia, with the aid of a pea shooter of course.
Wow this place is so informative. M.C i tend to fire them out of my arse cos i am classy
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