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| Thu 4 Aug 11, 7:13 PM Alphasort UK(YO), 3 yrs   |
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-lancashire-... ... is what I thought until I saw the very last paragraph; "The couple had been in a relationship for four months and lived in separate flats in a home for vulnerable adults." That maybe puts a slightly different slant on things. Edited Thu 4 Aug 11, 7:14 PM by Alphasort | ||
| 4 Aug 11, 7:21 PM Goddess_Asphyxia UK, 3 yrs |
A dreadfully sad n worrying story  'Taste the whip, in love, not given lightly......taste the whip, now plead for Me !' | ||
| 4 Aug 11, 7:23 PM icy_one 11 mths |
that really is too sad, shows how things can easily go too far, sad The chains that bind my mind are stronger than the chains that bind my body | ||
| 4 Aug 11, 7:24 PM Souci_X UK(BA), 5 yrs |
I think the vulnerable adults aspect makes it a little more jarring because it is vague as to why they were in that kind of home. It may be sad, it may be horrific. | ||
| 4 Aug 11, 7:30 PM Olokun UK(S), 5 yrs |
it is a sad story, and a reality I hope none of us have to face. But there may be the fact that they both got their sexual rush from it, have heard of other doing it, but had never bothered to research into the full biological/scientific risks, and safer ways of doing this. An up side for those of us in the scene is that we are more aware of risks, and do come on sites like this to research and ask questions. At the end of the day, even the safest of players, something can still go wrong. Play safe | ||
| 4 Aug 11, 7:34 PM Souci_X UK(BA), 5 yrs |
The point is, breath play can go wrong easily, do it a thousand times and there could be the one time that your hand slips, too much pressure, something wrong. It said in the article its something they did time and time again so its not like a one off 'bless them' situation | ||
| 4 Aug 11, 7:34 PM arseworship UK, 10 mths |
Yes your honour, it was just chainsawplay that went a bit wrong....errr yes with all seven prostitutes | ||
| 4 Aug 11, 7:40 PM Olokun UK(S), 5 yrs |
I am actually agreeing with what you say; ignorance isn't an excuse, but as we both said, even if you are full informed, have done it loads, accidents happen.
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| 4 Aug 11, 7:43 PM Visualize UK(CV), 5 yrs |
Hope he gets a good jury who look at the facts rationally and liberally mindedly, rather than a jury of people who find the described sexual element "distasteful" and are prejudiced as a result.... | ||
| 4 Aug 11, 10:22 PM kirsty_m 18 mths |
So sad | ||
| 4 Aug 11, 10:25 PM ignited_thoughts UK(BR), 6 yrs |
My motto - if you are not 101% sure you are safe - don't do it. I rather be called an amateur than regret harming someone for the rest of my life ... |
