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| Wed 3 Aug 11, 12:03 AM Vamp_Mystik UK(WA), 3 yrs   |
Well messaged actually ! By a sub pretending to be a Dom Im curious if others may think the same as me. My profile (albeit limited) is clear of what Im about. Yet im approached by a guy who has a totally submissive profile in its entirety. He says since he read my profile apparently, he has rethought and now says he is Dom. . I did respond to his message and suggested he attend munches build a network etc. He said its smacks of desperation and not his thing. Am I right in saying that to have such a profile and then totally contradict himself loses immediate trust to anyone he approaches?.... Or, the best of both worlds, just in case VM M.K.I.O.K. | |
| 3 Aug 11, 12:05 AM MisstressvsSolicedog UK(NN), 17 mths |
he's into teeth,, should'nt worry about it ! Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish | |
| 3 Aug 11, 12:08 AM Skylon UK(BS), 8 yrs |
I can find no fault in that logic
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| 3 Aug 11, 12:09 AM Monkey_Wench UK(B), 20 mths    |
It happens sweetie. I get them too, or did when I was actually looking. I always tell them that if they cannot be honest on their profile then I don't like their chances of being honest with me. 'money doesn't talk, it swears' - Bob Dylan. | |
| 3 Aug 11, 12:13 AM Incandescence UK, 3 yrs |
Going to munches smacks of desperation but suddenly changing from sub to dom after reading one profile doesn't? Hmmm, sounds like it's an easy leg over he's after1
In the beginning god created man ... that was his first mistake ... everybody knows the lady should always come first | |
| 3 Aug 11, 12:21 AM pleasureswitch UK(E), 6 yrs |
Ok sumt of a Barnyard Rooster, sure. But are you goin to give us a cryptic clue that give us a stab at guessin who Mr. Rooster is ? "Yeah I like Kinky stuff,dirty dark pervy stuff,weird sex....
An' Yerself ?" | |
| 3 Aug 11, 12:22 AM Happy_Monkey_J UK(B), 4 yrs |
Makes about as much sense as if he suddenly decided he was a lesbian... The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything.- Nietzsche | |
| 3 Aug 11, 12:36 AM Alphasort UK(YO), 3 yrs |
Your profile is not limited, I think it is very concise. I really don't follow why someone reading your (or anyone else for that matter) profile would suddenly change their D/s polarisation and do an about turn from sub to Dom.
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| 3 Aug 11, 12:38 AM Vamp_Mystik UK(WA), 3 yrs |
Oooooer and defy the AUP ! Never ! I just cant believe him ! Oi Oi Oi !!! VM M.K.I.O.K. | |
| 3 Aug 11, 12:40 AM ooted 10 yrs |
the most obvious answer is probably correct in this case yes. but some people do get confused and only realise that they have switch tendencies later on when they begin to explore D/s in reality and depth so its possible, but sounds unlikely in this case that its genuine. a few key questions to the alleged Dom would im sure sort the wheat from the chaff to resolve the question
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| 3 Aug 11, 12:43 AM SirOpenSource UK(E), 6 yrs     |
Stranger things have happened on IC but that's nothing new. SOS
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