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What do women, who are interested.... (17)

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Posted by emailforoptions on Tue 2 Aug 11, 10:17 PM to the FemDom_forum group.

What do women, who are interested in Femdom?

Get out of Femdom?

Do most people who are interested in this do it for the money like some pro doms. Or are there women who simply enjoy this position?

And if so why?

looking forward to some replies?

Replies

2 Aug 11, 11:30 PM
journerotica
UK(GL), 18 mths
I do it because it's who I am and I love it, no more and no less than that. I suspect most pros have the same answer, they do it professionally because they love it and can make money from something they enjoy, not just for the money.

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2 Aug 11, 11:36 PM
emailforoptions
15 mths
Is there like an aspect you like more, like being in control or inflicting pain?
3 Aug 11, 12:54 AM
Mistress_Susannah
UK(SE), 7 yrs
£
Blimey. How long is a piece of string?

You'll notice that I'm a pro Domme from my profile - I'll answer this from a professional and lifestyle perspective.

Being a Domme is at the very heart of my sexuality. It best expresses who I am both sexually and as a person. I get immense pleasure from it, both sexually and emotionally. I'm most attracted to D/s play where there is a significant amount of control. I find the dynamic, at times, intoxicating.

I could go into specifics ..... like how I really enjoy testing how far the brain will go in terms of processing pain and other things ...... but I haven't really time to wax lyrical for days.

3 Aug 11, 9:16 AM
MzWhipplash
UK(RM), 14 mths
emailforoptions wrote:
Is there like an aspect you like more, like being in control or inflicting pain?

I am an active Lifestyle Domme and I enjoy the Domne /submale dynamic and his body contorting and his moans of pleasure and his noises. I enjoy his respectful, polite reaction to me. The power exchange. I adore the whole dynamic.

I promote SSC play and enjiy encouraging new omers into the Lifestyle.

Mistress Whipplash

3 Aug 11, 10:17 AM
Ms_Valentine
UK, 9 yrs
I am also a Professional and lifestyle femDom Mistress in a 24/7 with my sub @paulss who is wonderful in every way.

What does one get out of FemDom? Well, firstly FemDom is no different to any other form of D/s. It is the urge to dominate a consensual submissive and to enact certain rituals, activities, protocols and so on within that female dominant framework.

I get a huge buzz from knowing men ache for female control and domination, as my nature is that way inclined and so to be with men who did not wish to acquiesce to a woman would be very stressful.

I enjoy equally all aspects of what FemDom can be. I control my subs and through that control may inflict pain and suffering if I wish. However, it is not just about pain, ordeals or suffering, it is about getting a sub wanting to please me no matter what that entails, cleaning my shoes, doing DIY, chastity and sexual control, taking a beating, giving me a massage or being tied up and left to sink into helpless subspace. It is all wonderful for me.

I feel secure, comfortable, in my element when in femdom relationships. I feel so relaxed and happy around submissive men. They make me feel good as they understand me, just as well as I understand them.

I do not like or get on with all submissive men however, the spectrum of what that encompasses is too huge for that to be the case. I know what particular attributes I need from a male sub and when I see those and am served in a way I feel is right for me, then being a FemDom is the best thing ever.

A Fine Norfolk Domme. Mistress of @paulss My PD blog at http://mistress-keene.blogspot.com/

Edited 3 Aug 11, 10:23 AM by Ms_Valentine

3 Aug 11, 11:09 AM
Ama_Sidero
UK(GU), 7 yrs


Ms_Valentine wrote:
I am also a Professional and lifestyle femDom Mistress in a 24/7 with my sub @paulss who is wonderful in every way.

What does one get out of FemDom? Well, firstly FemDom is no different to any other form of D/s. It is the urge to dominate a consensual submissive and to enact certain rituals, activities, protocols and so on within that female dominant framework.

I get a huge buzz from knowing men ache for female control and domination, as my nature is that way inclined and so to be with men who did not wish to acquiesce to a woman would be very stressful.

I enjoy equally all aspects of what FemDom can be. I control my subs and through that control may inflict pain and suffering if I wish. However, it is not just about pain, ordeals or suffering, it is about getting a sub wanting to please me no matter what that entails, cleaning my shoes, doing DIY, chastity and sexual control, taking a beating, giving me a massage or being tied up and left to sink into helpless subspace. It is all wonderful for me.

I feel secure, comfortable, in my element when in femdom relationships. I feel so relaxed and happy around submissive men. They make me feel good as they understand me, just as well as I understand them.

I do not like or get on with all submissive men however, the spectrum of what that encompasses is too huge for that to be the case. I know what particular attributes I need from a male sub and when I see those and am served in a way I feel is right for me, then being a FemDom is the best thing ever.

^^This. In addition, it is the sacrifice of control and their very essence to me - and them knowing I will keep it safe - though it might hurt sometimes. :-)

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3 Aug 11, 9:01 PM
MissKimberley
NL, 8 yrs


emailforoptions wrote:

Get out of Femdom?

Nothing. I hate it. I do it because I am forced to by evil aliens.

“During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act” - George Orwell
"In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different" - Coco Chanel
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5 Aug 11, 12:12 PM
Kitty_Fantastico
UK(OX), 2 yrs

MissKimberley wrote:
emailforoptions wrote:

Get out of Femdom?

Nothing. I hate it. I do it because I am forced to by evil aliens.

Huh...you to? And here was me believing them when they said I was special when they inserted the tracker ;)

5 Aug 11, 1:49 PM
Twistee
UK(BA), 3 yrs


Kitty_Fantastico wrote:
MissKimberley wrote:
emailforoptions wrote:

Get out of Femdom?

Nothing. I hate it. I do it because I am forced to by evil aliens.

Huh...you to? And here was me believing them when they said I was special when they inserted the tracker ;)

Aliens. Of course! That'll explain all the anal probing, then. Time for me to run away verrrrry slowwwwwly.

~Twistee~

Everything is better with a twist
@Strapon_Central

5 Aug 11, 5:57 PM
Elysium
UK(EH), 5 yrs

I don't see why there is this opinion that female dominants get nothing out of it. It's an example of Male subs devaluing themselves. It's also a rather damning indictment about your opinions on women. Do you assume every woman secretly desires to be dominated?

If you're submitting, they can pretty much get whatever they want within agreed limits.

What's not to like about that?

Let's televise and broadcast the raping of kings.

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