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Subs- Do you secretly crave what you detest? (56)

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2 Aug 11, 3:20 PM
atmos1949a
UK(LN), 16 mths
Godwin wrote:
I used to detest the idea of a woman fucking me with a strap-on. I'm still not keen on. However it is a mind fuck and a half.

:-$ :-p

I still do detest the idea ... I've obviously a lot to learn still

2 Aug 11, 3:37 PM
Unchained_spirit
UK(CM), 22 mths
little_e wrote:
Subs- Do you secretly crave what you detest?

So I just wondered, is there anyone else who hates something, either an experience or an interest, yet secretly craves it? I'd be very interested to know!

Yes!

(and, no, I do not intend to broadcast it here lol)

U_S x

Take me by the hand, take me somewhere new. Don't know who you are but I... I'm with you (Avril Lavigne)

2 Aug 11, 7:11 PM
Bambi_x
UK(NW), 2 yrs
little_e wrote:
Subs- Do you secretly crave what you detest?

So I just wondered, is there anyone else who hates something, either an experience or an interest, yet secretly craves it? I'd be very interested to know!

Yep. Quite a lot of things, actually.

I have to say that the biggest turn on I have, is being made to endure things that I don't like, both physically and emotionally.

For example; I really don't enjoy receiving pain; but I crave being forced to endure it, and I crave receiving pain as punishment. The same goes for humiliation and degradation - two of the things I fear and dread the most - yet I crave them more than anything else..

It's an eternal dichotomy between love and hate.

Fistful of love..

2 Aug 11, 11:32 PM
darkdollie
UK(FY), 7 yrs
£
I often crave what i detest, i am a masochist in the truest defintiton of the word - i am turned on by being made to suffer

And I'm with Bambi all the way!

Edited 2 Aug 11, 11:33 PM by darkdollie

2 Aug 11, 11:47 PM
naughtyskibunny
UK(SW), 2 yrs
No

Sugar and spice and all things nice are what I 'could' be made of...

3 Aug 11, 5:37 PM
Princess_of_Disguise
UK, 13 mths
This is something I've been pondering for a while, partly because recently, when I've been playing in public with people, they seem to keep producing pin wheels, which I kinda hate and am very vocal about my dislike of them and yet now I find myself getting curious about them, and almost want them to appear (though kinda hoping Mistress doesn't read this!)

For certain other things that scare me, or I get squeamish about, I have intense curiosity, and sometimes wish that they would turn up, though that's partly because they make Her happy, and I really like doing that.

little_e wrote:
<snip> is there anyone else who hates something, either an experience or an interest, yet secretly craves it? <snip>

{Mistress Nikki's pretty}
'It is not enough to know how to conquer, one must also know how to seduce' - Voltaire

3 Aug 11, 6:04 PM
MistressNikki
UK(SE), 9 yrs
Princess_of_Disguise wrote:
*snip* and yet now I find myself getting curious about them, and almost want them to appear (though kinda hoping Mistress doesn't read this!)

But I see all... you know that Pretty....

;-)

Power is of two kinds. One is obtained by the fear of punishment and the other by acts of love. Power based on love is a thousand times more effective & permanent then the one derived from fear of punishment

3 Aug 11, 6:18 PM
dougie159*
UK(KA), 7 yrs


maso_miss wrote:
I think I'm slightly different, in that I crave being made to do something that I actually do hate, instead of hate but secretly love. So although I don't enjoy the actual act itself, I get off on the show of power.

I personally don't really feel like "I want to please my dominant" but I really love the fact that they will do something, or make me do something, that I hate, just because they feel like it. That's hot as hell.

Got to kind of agree with this. i REALLY hate the cane & am fortunate that my Mistress knows this so it is only used for punishment. But, when i meet her on Friday i have been ordered to wear a pair of nappies. Never done it before, never even considered it & don't like the idea but i love humiliation aspect so will get off on that (well would do if she did not have me locked in chastity)

273-797-178

Don't knock down fences until you know why they were put up.

3 Aug 11, 7:55 PM
secret_kinkster
10 mths
Quite simply, yes! I loathe having my feet touch. I will literally scream from the second someone touches them.

However, I recently got a tattoo on my foot. As the tattooist was holding me with a firm grip (in a latex glove, just as an aside ;) ) I had to bite my lip, not from the pain of the tattoo, but him holding my foot was both a turn on and hell.

There are days when I desperately want a foot massage but shudder at the thought of handing my feet over; some days I do it anyway because I crave the feelings it creates.

3 Aug 11, 9:11 PM
harry_b
UK(B), 4 yrs

Yes, without a doubt!! But some things are better left unsaid...! (For now)

Utterly_Slutterly wrote:
little_e wrote:
Subs- Do you secretly crave what you detest?

So I just wondered, is there anyone else who hates something, either an experience or an interest, yet secretly craves it? I'd be very interested to know!

Yes!

(and, no, I do not intend to broadcast it here lol)

U_S x

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