Issuing of Summons (2)
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Thu 28 Jul 11, 8:36 PM
jstripes
UK(KT), 7 yrs
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Have any Dommes considered turning things around with some of their regular clients so that instead of leaving it to the client to call to book their appointment, the Domme Herself decides when the time is right and issues a Summons to attend or a command to call at a particular time to make an appointment?
It occurs to me that such an arrangement might have some advantages, such as: - Making planning of schedules easier
- Placing the Domme more in charge of the situation
- Emphasising the sub's proper role of providing service when required and convenient for the Domme
I put something on my weblog that describes how this dynamic feels like from a sub's point of view, here: Sleeper
What do people think?
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28 Jul 11, 8:43 PM
dougie159
UK(KA), 7 yrs
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jstripes wrote:
Issuing of Summons
Have any Dommes considered turning things around with some of their regular clients so that instead of leaving it to the client to call to book their appointment, the Domme Herself decides when the time is right and issues a Summons to attend or a command to call at a particular time to make an appointment?
It occurs to me that such an arrangement might have some advantages, such as: - Making planning of schedules easier
- Placing the Domme more in charge of the situation
- Emphasising the sub's proper role of providing service when required and convenient for the Domme
I put something on my weblog that describes how this dynamic feels like from a sub's point of view, here: Sleeper
What do people think?
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i enjoy being summoned & when i was using PD's had thought of giving them a bundle of money (once i trusted them and then leaving session time/date/length to them & let me know when the sum' given is running out. That way my stealing glances at the clock would not leave me thinking 'only' 10 minutes left' & thereby giving more 'proper' control to my PD.
i'm just so romantic me!!!!!
273-797-178 Don't knock down fences until you know why they were put up.
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29 Jul 11, 7:55 AM
lisal
9 yrs |
jstripes wrote:
Issuing of Summons
Have any Dommes considered turning things around with some of their regular clients so that instead of leaving it to the client to call to book their appointment, the Domme Herself decides when the time is right and issues a Summons to attend or a command to call at a particular time to make an appointment?
It occurs to me that such an arrangement might have some advantages, such as: - Making planning of schedules easier
- Placing the Domme more in charge of the situation
- Emphasising the sub's proper role of providing service when required and convenient for the Domme
I put something on my weblog that describes how this dynamic feels like from a sub's point of view, here: Sleeper
What do people think?
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I think I've got quite a busy life and there would be quite a number of times that I could not call or get to a session. FWIW my domme has a very good idea of what I do and when so I suppose she could get me to ring/session at times she knows I am free but not quite sure that is going to fit into your plan
We actually session, regularly, on a day that suits us both and that works very well. There is no need for either of us to change that pattern as we both understand our D/s dynamic |
