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| 30 Jul 11, 6:21 PM icy_one 11 mths  |
For me being able to come home from work and hang all my stresses up with my uniform and let someone else take control was an amazing release. The chains that bind my mind are stronger than the chains that bind my body | |
| 30 Jul 11, 6:35 PM ClassAct2005 UK(N), 7 yrs |
In some ways it can be the other way round and in a nice D/s relationship ( or indeed any relationship) if you've things going wrong in life to have someone to talk to about it and perhaps even take decisions is nice. I certainly think people's sex drives wax and wane depending on how they feel however. I didn't feel much like sex after I'd given birth each time. | |
| 30 Jul 11, 6:44 PM twilightsilence UK(ME), 16 mths  |
I have a lot of stress in my life at the moment outside of my D/s relationship and I'm actually finding it is making me crave the dominance more. I need to feel the support while I'm trying to cope with the other stuff.
Unfortunately, my reaction to stress is insecurity and neediness, which isn't helping things at all You wanted all of me, I freely gave it. Look after me, cherish me, love me. | |
| 30 Jul 11, 6:59 PM Lady_Em UK, 2 yrs |
When I was ill last year my pet came over all dominant - which was really odd. I suppose that he wasn't in control of my illness so he needed to be in control of everything else!
A week at a dungeon returned things to normal I can't say that I ever felt remotely submissive through it all. | |
| 30 Jul 11, 7:33 PM BigOldHector UK(DE), 10 yrs |
I think that could as easily be "consequently" as "conversely". During or in the aftermath of any major upheaval I think its quite common to feel out of touch with things you are normally passionate about, unless or until something specific happens to give a kick-start to "business as usual". I've certainly found that myself a couple of times. I AM THE GOD OF HELL-FIRE!.....but its my lunch break right now |
