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| Fri 22 Jul 11, 3:49 PM slave_atiya UK(M), 11 mths   |
Hi all, When i was walking to work this morning, i got to thinking about the lifestyle and the Mistress / slave relationship in general, it left me with a question ?, do you prefer a Domme to be in your face , loud and barking orders at you, or like me do you prefer to be Dommed in a cold , quiet almost steely way, when i have served a Domme in the past and the initial euphoria has died down a bit, i really enjoy the next stage of quiet Dominantion where it's established that i'm her slave and there to do her bidding, as such shouldn't need to be constantly told what to do, i should in fact imho be able to start predicting her needs/ wants almost before the Mistress herself knows, just wondered what you all think / prefer, sa. | |
| 22 Jul 11, 3:52 PM Souci_X UK(BA), 5 yrs |
Not a man but I have been with Dommes I like the surprising dominance from someone you can confide in, who you talk to like a best mate but who can twist so sweetly. In a relationship I wouldn't want either of what you describe. | |
| 22 Jul 11, 4:14 PM Sharp_as_Ice 2 yrs |
When you're in that position I'm not sure you'd be able to hear much of anything...
So cool it hurts... | |
| 22 Jul 11, 4:32 PM gagmequick UK(OX), 2 yrs |
Yeah, neither of them appeal to me! I like my Dommes "fluffy"! | |
| 22 Jul 11, 4:32 PM gagmequick UK(OX), 2 yrs |
Yeah, neither of them appeal to me! I like my Dommes "fluffy"! | |
| 22 Jul 11, 4:33 PM gagmequick UK(OX), 2 yrs |
I also like repeating myself! | |
| 22 Jul 11, 4:33 PM gagmequick UK(OX), 2 yrs |
I also like repeating myself! | |
| 22 Jul 11, 4:45 PM vixylix 2 yrs |
Each to their own and whatever works for you.
I however (with the limited experience I have) prefer to have a Domme who doesn't stick to a stereotype but someone who I can have a laugh with and who I enjoy giving myself to just because she is lovely and pleasant (mostly You don't have to be shouty and mean, or cold and steely to make me feel like I have to submit... My blog: http://wifeinlove.wordpress.com/ | |
| 22 Jul 11, 5:06 PM prettyPETunia UK(WS), 4 yrs |
Dont know yet, still a subby virgin, but I like the idea of an upper class lady domming my working class personality. As long as we get on/click, I dont mind who or how they are | |
| 22 Jul 11, 6:01 PM Twistee UK(BA), 3 yrs  |
I have to say, a quieter style of domination is definitely what I prefer, but not in the same way that you describe. I suppose the best way I can describe it is tender, intimate and quietly amused. Effortlessly in control, but with a subtle edge that suggests there is steel beneath that velvet tone. A menacing potential for aggression might rise to the surface at any moment, but mostly lurks just beneath. In your face and barking orders just doesn't have quite the same effect on me. ~Twistee~ Everything is better with a twist | |
| 22 Jul 11, 6:28 PM man_in_tyres UK(RM), 22 mths |
I got to admit I prefer the more quiet domination mixed in with a bit of "shouty in your face " type on occasions just to let me know my place in her life .
I love serving and pleasing and wouldn't deliberately do anything to annoy a Domme and make her angry but on occasions if I'm getting too relaxed in the relationship the occasional putting me in my place might be needed and also it adds to the excitement of not knowing what she will do next  Just my limited expereinced view . At the end of the day ................ It's night |
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