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BDSM and conservatism (21)

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verte
Posted by verte on Thu 21 Jul 11, 1:40 PM to verte's blog.

To whomever it was that used to post interesting things on this site about the inherent conservatism that lies at the heart of sexual perversion:

You're right.

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21 Jul 11, 2:35 PM
bohnanza
UK(FK), 12 yrs

Is position this derived from research? If so, is there a link to it?

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21 Jul 11, 2:51 PM
verte
UK(E), 8 yrs
bohnanza wrote:
Is position this derived from research? If so, is there a link to it?

What on earth do you mean? Some kind of quantitative study of rats or similar?

When I say someone's "right", all I really mean is that my position has shifted and that I now understand their logic and surmise it to be, well, logical.

ETA: this doesn't mean I'm now a Tory.

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Edited 21 Jul 11, 2:57 PM by verte

21 Jul 11, 3:25 PM
FlashHarry
UK(S), 3 yrs

verte wrote:

ETA: this doesn't mean I'm now a Tory.

More fool you ;)

21 Jul 11, 3:51 PM
GirlAfraid
UK, 3 yrs
FlashHarry wrote:
More fool you ;)

Not in public dear, not in public.

21 Jul 11, 5:42 PM
tanken
UK(NR), 2 yrs

verte wrote:
BDSM and conservatism

To whomever it was that used to post interesting things on this site about the inherent conservatism that lies at the heart of sexual perversion:

You're right.

That rules me out then, I might as well leave this site straight away because I hate Tories.

Happiness is a warm bum :)

21 Jul 11, 8:27 PM
MissP
UK(EN), 8 yrs
Being a good Tory gerly myself, I can only agree :-D

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21 Jul 11, 8:39 PM
Insistor
UK(PL), 7 yrs
verte wrote:
BDSM and conservatism

To whomever it was that used to post interesting things on this site about the inherent conservatism that lies at the heart of sexual perversion:

You're right.

I don't know about all sexual perversion but it is surely true of BDSM. As you point out, it is not neccessary to be a Tory to be conservative. You can also be a left/liberal and a perv.

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22 Jul 11, 1:02 AM
verte
UK(E), 8 yrs
As I said, it has nothing to do with party political persuasion. In fact, I'd argue that the private realm of the erotic and the public idea of sexual citizenship have -- or at least should have -- very little to do with one another.

I suppose the point is that transgression/perversion can't function without limits. In order to disavow a social order (like de Sade or Bataille), the social order has to, rigorously, exist in the first place, and remain in place in order that transgression is, well, 'transgressive'. Therefore, Sade was basically a social conservative. He had to, in some way, believe in God (or at least have SOME respect for the social structure that allowed for the primacy of God) in order to disavow God. Also, BDSM reproduces (although some say "simulates") socially repressive narratives all the time. Those narratives have to be in some way adhered to or given credence in order to be re-figured and re-enacted 'transgressively'.

If that makes sense. And yes, I lean to the left and always will, though I'm not a liberal in any traditional sense. I'm the unsightly hairy armpit of IC. ;-)

Railing against the tyranny of 'common sense'.
http://www.backlash-uk.org.uk
http://www.kinkysalonlondon.co.uk

Edited 22 Jul 11, 1:26 AM by verte

22 Jul 11, 1:25 AM
verte
UK(E), 8 yrs
GirlAfraid wrote:
FlashHarry wrote:
More fool you ;)

Not in public dear, not in public.

You two are marv.

Railing against the tyranny of 'common sense'.
http://www.backlash-uk.org.uk
http://www.kinkysalonlondon.co.uk

22 Jul 11, 2:23 AM
versswitch
UK(WA), 11 yrs
All this assumes we all feel bdsm is transgressive and not, in fact, quite natural.

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