| Amazemia |
If your seeing someone and you know there is no spark, that your just not feeling it, surely it is best to tell that person and move on instead of stringing them along.......
I cant make myself love someone if im just not feeling it....
This person is a lovely guy and would do anything for me but its just not happening............
Oh well onwards and upwards
| 19 Jul 11, 7:35 PM hollythedolly UK(NN), 2 yrs |
have you told him or just announced it on here sort of a public dumping | ||
| 19 Jul 11, 7:36 PM Happy_Monkey_J UK(B), 4 yrs |
Seems like a sensible decision, as long as you let them down gently. Good luck to the both of you!! Dominating a doormat is like wrestling a hamster. One sided, dull and not worth bragging about... | ||
| 19 Jul 11, 7:39 PM nastybstd UK(LU), 6 yrs |
Tell him. NOT us! The pleasure, I fear, will be all mine. | ||
| 19 Jul 11, 7:39 PM Amazemia UK, 4 yrs |
Yes I have told him and hes not on here or into D/s | ||
| 19 Jul 11, 7:40 PM Amazemia UK, 4 yrs |
I DID dont read if not interested
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| 19 Jul 11, 7:45 PM purgamentum UK, 3 yrs |
If the feelings aren't there they aren't there. Best to be honest and move on. "I have great faith in fools -- self confidence my friends call it." Edgar Allan Poe | ||
| 19 Jul 11, 8:56 PM Miss_Fifi UK, 20 mths |
You're being really honest and respecting yourself and him to. The sooner you bite the bullet and let him down very gently the better. You never know you might be able to salvage a friendship | ||
| 19 Jul 11, 11:01 PM XskyeX UK(WA), 12 mths |
Just an observation but I thought weblogs are for "members own writing" a place to vent feelings or experiences Isn't that what the OP was doing? To the world, You are one person. But to one person, you might be the world. Edited 20 Jul 11, 12:48 PM by XskyeX | ||
| 20 Jul 11, 6:28 PM GazUK1963 UK(B), 6 yrs |
Big hugs to you. It's not easy and you will both hurt, but you are doing the best thing. Gary xxx. Everyone who lives dies, but not everyone who dies has truly lived. | ||
| 22 Jul 11, 11:46 PM RebelT UK(CH), 7 yrs |
I think you have |