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* Move on * (10)

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Amazemia
Posted by Amazemia on Tue 19 Jul 11, 7:33 PM to Amazemia's blog.

If your seeing someone and you know there is no spark, that your just not feeling it, surely it is best to tell that person and move on instead of stringing them along.......

I cant make myself love someone if im just not feeling it....

This person is a lovely guy and would do anything for me but its just not happening............

Oh well onwards and upwards :-)

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19 Jul 11, 7:35 PM
hollythedolly
UK(NN), 2 yrs


Amazemia wrote:
* Move on *

If your seeing someone and you know there is no spark, that your just not feeling it, surely it is best to tell that person and move on instead of stringing them along.......

I cant make myself love someone if im just not feeling it....

This person is a lovely guy and would do anything for me but its just not happening............

Oh well onwards and upwards :-)

have you told him or just announced it on here sort of a public dumping

19 Jul 11, 7:36 PM
Happy_Monkey_J
UK(B), 4 yrs

Seems like a sensible decision, as long as you let them down gently.

Good luck to the both of you!!

Dominating a doormat is like wrestling a hamster. One sided, dull and not worth bragging about...

19 Jul 11, 7:39 PM
nastybstd
UK(LU), 6 yrs

Amazemia wrote:
* Move on *

If your seeing someone and you know there is no spark, that your just not feeling it, surely it is best to tell that person and move on instead of stringing them along.......

I cant make myself love someone if im just not feeling it....

This person is a lovely guy and would do anything for me but its just not happening............

Oh well onwards and upwards :-)

Tell him. NOT us!

The pleasure, I fear, will be all mine.
You cant help those that refuse to listen.

19 Jul 11, 7:39 PM
Amazemia
UK, 4 yrs
Yes I have told him and hes not on here or into D/s
19 Jul 11, 7:40 PM
Amazemia
UK, 4 yrs
nastybstd wrote:
Amazemia wrote:
* Move on *

If your seeing someone and you know there is no spark, that your just not feeling it, surely it is best to tell that person and move on instead of stringing them along.......

I cant make myself love someone if im just not feeling it....

This person is a lovely guy and would do anything for me but its just not happening............

Oh well onwards and upwards :-)

Tell him. NOT us!

I DID dont read if not interested

19 Jul 11, 7:45 PM
purgamentum
UK, 3 yrs

If the feelings aren't there they aren't there. Best to be honest and move on.

"I have great faith in fools -- self confidence my friends call it." Edgar Allan Poe

19 Jul 11, 8:56 PM
Miss_Fifi
UK, 20 mths
You're being really honest and respecting yourself and him to. The sooner you bite the bullet and let him down very gently the better. You never know you might be able to salvage a friendship :-)
19 Jul 11, 11:01 PM
XskyeX
UK(WA), 12 mths

nastybstd wrote:

Tell him. NOT us!

Just an observation but I thought weblogs are for "members own writing" a place to vent feelings or experiences

Isn't that what the OP was doing?

To the world, You are one person. But to one person, you might be the world.

Edited 20 Jul 11, 12:48 PM by XskyeX

20 Jul 11, 6:28 PM
GazUK1963
UK(B), 6 yrs
Big hugs to you. It's not easy and you will both hurt, but you are doing the best thing.

Gary xxx.

Everyone who lives dies, but not everyone who dies has truly lived.
When you're tired of The Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar you're tired of life!

22 Jul 11, 11:46 PM
RebelT
UK(CH), 7 yrs

Amazemia wrote:
* Move on *

Oh well onwards and upwards :-)

I think you have :-)

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