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| 11 Jul 11, 12:39 AM Black0rchid UK, 2 yrs   |
but then... you're the god of hell fire. (we were always told to look at the information source first).
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| 11 Jul 11, 12:42 AM milomj28 UK(CH), 10 yrs |
It is hard but you must be strong and walk away,a D/S relationship can only work if you agree on the dynamics of the relationship.GOOD LUCK | |||
| 11 Jul 11, 12:42 AM BigOldHector UK(DE), 10 yrs |
But I am! Honest!
I AM THE GOD OF HELL-FIRE!.....but its my lunch break right now | |||
| 11 Jul 11, 7:02 AM Black0rchid UK, 2 yrs |
If you were older I would say, "you surely don't need the advice of a pile of strangers you've never met to tell you not to be a doormat?" Given your age, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, but: It is this simple: You are unhappy, he is unwilling to compromise, Go. In this respect a ds relationship is no different to a vanilla relationship. If it is not working for you, leave. You are not a covered woman in a state where women have no rights, sold of by her Father and having to be subjected to a life of pain and slavery on the pain of death for bringing the family name into disrepute. He sounds a cxxt so go. | |||
| 11 Jul 11, 9:35 AM Ianneil UK(N), 5 yrs |
Well Icy you have asked the audience and a massive 92% have said A/Dump the bastard, 4% went off subject and started flirting with each other, 1% said you should have know what you were getting into and back on you knees...I see you master/BF in the audience tonight and 5% are shit at maths. You can still go 50/50 or phone a friend. | |||
| 11 Jul 11, 12:53 PM Black0rchid UK, 2 yrs |
Who was he? Just remember, when you think you're free, that crack inside your fucking heart is me. | |||
| 11 Jul 11, 12:54 PM Black0rchid UK, 2 yrs |
You haven't read the previous posts properly. Since being with him she doesn't have friends now. Just remember, when you think you're free, that crack inside your fucking heart is me. | |||
| 11 Jul 11, 1:04 PM Ianneil UK(N), 5 yrs |
You can be her friend.
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| 11 Jul 11, 1:31 PM Black0rchid UK, 2 yrs |
OK then. You've got the phone a friend option back now. Just remember, when you think you're free, that crack inside your fucking heart is me. | |||
| 11 Jul 11, 1:47 PM wonderer UK, 5 yrs |
I tend to agree with most of what's been posted, and most of Master_NRG's post, but just a question about the last (quoted) sentence. I don't generally read the "O&P" (Ownership and Possession) group, but I wonder what their perspective on this would be. I get the impression some crave to be treated as a "possession", though I think probably in the O&P group the owner would always also treat them as fully human, "possession and person", not "possession and not person". Similarly I have come across people on here who quite enjoy - in role play at least - being treated as something less than human; e.g. as a "pony" giving rides, or as a dog, or a furry animal, or as a piece of furniture such as a footstool for a Lady's feet, or as a doll or sex toy. Personally I could enjoy this too, in role play, but would never want to think of myself or anyone else as less than fully human in actuality, only in role play. However I guess these kinks, like all aspects of BDSM, must arise consensually, and it sounds like they're not what icy_one wishes for.
"Wisdom begins in wonder” (Socrates) Edited 11 Jul 11, 3:34 PM by wonderer |
