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Question to single Fem Subs (13)

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FluffySub
Posted by FluffySub on Sat 9 Jul 11, 11:14 PM to FluffySub's blog.

If you went to an event and there were House Doms (not Dommes) available, would you play with them?

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9 Jul 11, 11:23 PM
lush_london
UK(WC), 6 yrs
FluffySub wrote:
Question to single Fem Subs

If you went to an event and there were House Doms (not Dommes) available, would you play with them?

I only play with friends, and I have several friends who DM / House Dom at events so probably. But if I didn't know them, it would depend on their reputation (they could still be tossers even if someone had asked them to be a house Dom) and would also depend on what was agreed (and adhered to) between us before play.

9 Jul 11, 11:27 PM
SlutLesley
UK(G), 4 yrs

It would depend on the Dom, and if I felt comfortable enough to play with them. I'd probably watch from the wings for a while first though, to suss them out.

L x

9 Jul 11, 11:34 PM
FluffySub
UK(NN), 6 yrs


Thanks both. It was a random comment with friends tonight - we all know males subs will play with Femme Doms, we weren't overly sure if ladies take up the service.

Not huffy or stuffy, nor tiny or tall, But fluffy, just fluffy, with no brains at all.
A P Herbert (who obviously knew me well)

9 Jul 11, 11:44 PM
Perplexion
13 mths
Probably not, I prefer longer sessions that an HD can give and very often it feels pointless without ... um ... yeah ... anyway ...
10 Jul 11, 1:35 AM
rocket_wench
UK, 3 yrs
FluffySub wrote:
Question to single Fem Subs

If you went to an event and there were House Doms (not Dommes) available, would you play with them?

To my knowledge I've only talked to one bloke who worked as a house dom, but as he was a bit of an attention-seeking kleptomaniac sociopath it kinda put me off the idea for a while ;-)

10 Jul 11, 3:47 AM
Shamonu
UK, 7 yrs

The world is ruled by House Doms, so no it makes me feel like I want to kick them in them knackers. But thankfully I'm probably in the minority!!

She's so pure, Moses could'nt even part her knees.....Joan Rivers on Marie Osmond.

10 Jul 11, 6:59 AM
penwiggle
UK(CB), 5 yrs

LateLesley wrote:
It would depend on the Dom, and if I felt comfortable enough to play with them. I'd probably watch from the wings for a while first though, to suss them out.

L x

I think I would tend to agree with Lesley's statement, and probably more so than with a House Domme. I know that's not fair, and probably has to do with being mostly lesbian. I'm just more picky with the men I play with.

But the same rules should apply, talk first, discuss limits, etc. And, if you feel safe with a woman in that situation, why not? I feel safer playing with a stranger in a club than I would at home.

You say Ouch like it's a bad word.

10 Jul 11, 8:26 AM
MeanMachine
UK(B), 14 mths
FluffySub wrote:
Thanks both. It was a random comment with friends tonight - we all know males subs will play with Femme Doms, we weren't overly sure if ladies take up the service.

Hello....... what about us quiet ones who help run events?

And I know its 'cheesey' but we is people too :-D

MM

«It is the law of nature that woman should be held under the dominance of man»

10 Jul 11, 10:13 AM
FluffySub
UK(NN), 6 yrs


MeanMachine wrote:
Hello....... what about us quiet ones who help run events?

Quiet?! Okaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay :-D I'd not go near you matey, you're scary ;-)

Thanks for the replies ladies and MM.

To answer my own question, yes I would if a) I found them attractive, b) if I knew they had a good reputation, c) if I'd observed and liked what I saw.

Like Pen, I feel safer playing in a club environment than at home with someone I don't know well, so with my Single Female Sub hat on, it would be a win/win situation for me.

Not huffy or stuffy, nor tiny or tall, But fluffy, just fluffy, with no brains at all.
A P Herbert (who obviously knew me well)

10 Jul 11, 11:08 AM
Call_Me_Harmony
UK(CB), 5 yrs

Ok so I am not single but my Sir is quite happy for me to engage in play with others, especially if I am out without him.

After watching a House Dom if I liked the way he played I would have no hesitation in playing with a House Dom.

As others have commented I feel far safer playing with a stranger in public.

If you don't like what you see, what you read, then just move along. Life is too short to waste it arguing about the little things.
http://www.journey.wingsofspirit.co.uk/index.html - Journey

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