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| Wed 29 Jun 11, 4:48 PM Mr_Alex UK, 11 mths |
Hi there 
I'm just after a little advice to stop me getting into any bother.
My girlfriend and I are very big fans of breathplay and enjoy all forms of it but it has caused us a few problems. The issue is that while she might be very fond of my hands/arms/belt around her throat, she bruises like a peach and the marks can be fairly difficult to explain to a few reactionary people. We've tried hand-gagging and it's fun but doesn't really compare for us. Could anybody be so kind as to offer some advice? Thanks in advance for any help | ||
| 29 Jun 11, 4:54 PM Mister_Bear UK(TS), 5 yrs |
u could try gas masks or other breath masks if the sane judge the insane ..........who judges the sane | ||
| 29 Jun 11, 4:55 PM blueisland 6 yrs  |
wet towel. | ||
| 29 Jun 11, 4:57 PM Winston_Smith 5 yrs |
Would soft leather gloves be any help in reducing bruising? I dunno, just an idea. Cunt busting is the new black. | ||
| 29 Jun 11, 4:59 PM Caelum UK(HP), 7 yrs  |
I have no experience of breath play but how about putting a scarf on her first to minimise the bruising? Or treating her to some stylish turtle-neck sweaters to hide the marks afterwards? | ||
| 29 Jun 11, 5:06 PM Mr_Alex UK, 11 mths |
Yeah, turtle-necks are pretty useful for us but with the warm weather and that it looks a little more suspicious then just the bruising at the moment lol. | ||
| 29 Jun 11, 5:08 PM Mr_Alex UK, 11 mths |
Not a bad idea at all. Will certainly try that, thanks | ||
| 29 Jun 11, 5:11 PM Olokun UK(S), 5 yrs |
You could try one of these masks you can make a small mouth hole which could easily be covered up by just a finger, or cheaper is clingfilm, and you can see their eyes that way too , and it's easily pierced Latex gloved hands give a nice seal over the mouth, which means less pressure needed Edited 29 Jun 11, 5:13 PM by Olokun | ||
| 29 Jun 11, 5:12 PM Mr_Alex UK, 11 mths |
We have thought about masks and that. The only problem with that would be that we tend to take it as far as a blackout and the mask would make it far more dangerous because of difficulty removing afterwards. (Please don't judge :S) | ||
| 29 Jun 11, 5:21 PM Mister_Bear UK(TS), 5 yrs |
i se what u mean , and never fear i wouldnt judge, we all do our kink our own way
if the sane judge the insane ..........who judges the sane | ||
| 29 Jun 11, 5:23 PM MisterBear UK(WA), 8 yrs  |
Arnica gel or whatever it is, is supposed to be good at helping to reduce bruising, so could be worth a try. Not sure if it's any good for smothering in the breath play sense though. Can you tell I'm bored and have nothing better to do with my life? |
