"What I seek" - I sought (8)

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Posted by Goldilocks on Tue 28 Jun 11, 10:50 PM to Goldilocks's blog.

The below section taken from my profile no longer applies as I found what I was seeking.

What I Seek

After some thought I have decided that I don't have enough play partners so I want to try and acquire more. I'm fussy though about who I like; I have to be attracted to someone and have some kind of chemistry/connection. I want to meet these people in real life at events and parties then get to know them. I am not using IC or the internet to meet people. If you memo me because you want us to play or date or whatever, you're unlikely to receive a positive response or maybe no reply at all.

I'm primarily seeking sadists. I want to find someone who can bite my neck, slap my face, pull my hair, punch me, kick me, scare me, cut me, whip me, cane me, spank me, burn me, pinch me, scratch me, break me and more. I'm particularly fond of pressure points and I am an avid fan of struggling/consentual non-consent. I need to find just a few special people whom I can do these things with.

I would love to be in a proper D/s relationship but I don't see that happening anytime soon. I tend to get emotionally involved with men rather than women although I am sexually attracted to both.

I would like to meet a young Dominant person to be in a relationship with but I'm not in a rush to do so. When it happens, it happens. For now, I just have casual play partners and I actively seeking more. Eventually I want a D/s relationship where I am the submissive partner. This will be with a Dominant person who is a competent player in terms of rope, sadomasochism and everything else who can also love me and be a boyfriend/girlfriend for me within 'vanilla' society. Basically, I need someone who will control me and can tie me, hurt me and fuck me in the bedroom (or anywhere, for that matter) and can also take me to my parent's house for dinner. I don't use 'submissive' to describe myself too often though because I don't always class myself as one. I feel that I am primarily a masochist but I do submit to the pain.

Any play partner would have to be safe and a good communicator. They would need to be hygienic and clean. Men would have to be taller than me. Women can be taller or shorter. They would have to be attractive in my opinion. Any play partner would also have to find me attractive and like my body and how I look. I have stretch marks, cellulite and other things on my body that I dislike. A play partner would have to either accept and/or like them.

This was a big part of my profile up until about a minute ago when I removed this chunk and replaced it with a little snippet about how I am now in a relationship with someone. I have been single since I joined the scene and since I joined this site. It is only now I can finally highlight someone in blue and proclaim to an internet community consisting of real-life friends and strangers that I am no longer on the market.

I feel so happy <3

Replies

28 Jun 11, 10:52 PM successfu1 5 yrs	Congratulations wonderful lady!! "Yes, but that's just not relevant.."
28 Jun 11, 10:55 PM Monkey_Wench UK(B), 20 mths	Congratulations, and thank you for sharing your happiness with us. . So long, and thanks for all the fish!
28 Jun 11, 10:58 PM Skyhook 7 yrs	Really really pleased for you! Top news "Me? I'm all about the hugs. And cruelty. Hugs and cruelty basically."
28 Jun 11, 10:58 PM AshUK UK(EN), 7 yrs £	Congratulations hon - I'm very happy for you ! X " When I am King, you will be first against the wall. "
28 Jun 11, 11:02 PM Conan_The_Librarian UK(S), 3 yrs	Excellent, happy news!!! Augusti Ro Laren Futatrix.
28 Jun 11, 11:04 PM FairyGirl UK(YO), 3 yrs	I lovelovelove this! "Nothing saves anyone's life, Sir. It just postpones their death." - Posner , The History Boys. All it takes for bad English to prevail is for literate people to do nothing. @Daddy_Dom_Dynamic & @In_The_Nursery
29 Jun 11, 12:12 AM GazUK1963 UK(B), 6 yrs	Congratulations , I'm really pleased for you xxx. Everyone who lives dies, but not everyone who dies has truly lived. When you're tired of The Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar you're tired of life!
29 Jun 11, 12:24 AM curious_wee_lass UK(G), 12 mths	Congrats that is awesome