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| 28 Jun 11, 1:02 AM The_Majickian UK(SW), 9 yrs |
Make herself scarce. I haven't seen her in years... Holmes: Meretricious |
| 28 Jun 11, 7:52 AM Ms_Valentine UK, 9 yrs |
In some ways I can't compare what I have with @paulss with any sub relationships I have had in my personal life before. They were so so different. I have never lived 24/7 with anyone before and a sub has never been my sub, lover and best friend all rolled into one lovely entity. So, comparisons are very hard to make. Maybe all I can say is that because I never ended up 24/7 with anyone before, it suggests that all my boxes were not ticked before. I always had certain reservations which would stop me taking the relationship further. Paul has so many good qualities that I would bore everyone into a stupor listing them and he is well aware of just how much I think of him and the love I feel for him. I sometimes wish that he were into CP for himself and not just as a submissive ordeal but that is a tiny little thing. Anyway, he probably wishes that my tits were even bigger than they are, so I know no one is a perfect match in every tiny detail. It is those small imperfections which remind us we are lucky to have so many good points. I have never really sat and compared him to others in my head but just remembering now some of the little disasters and problems I had experienced with other subs makes me very grateful to have found someone so compatible to share my everyday and bdsm life with. A Fine Norfolk Domme. Mistress of @paulss My PD blog at http://mistress-keene.blogspot.com/ |
| 28 Jun 11, 9:33 AM relaxed1 UK(BR), 6 yrs |
I couldn't, and wouldn't, compare one sub with another – they've all been lovely in different ways. The one thing I would say about chatters is that she fits into my life perfectly, like a best friend, lover and submissive all rolled into one package. Is she without imperfections? Of course not! She's human. But to me, shot through with imperfections as I am, she is perfect. "A man who does not think for himself does not think at all." - Oscar Wilde |