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| 27 Jun 11, 11:16 PM Lady_Susan UK, 5 yrs  |
sadism is the dark heart of my Dominance; play without pain would be like smoked salmon without lemon juice. When I want your opinion, I'll thrash it out of you. | ||
| 28 Jun 11, 12:25 AM Marky_Smith UK(CR), 16 mths  |
Surely the Sadism comes in for what you choose or decide is something your sub does not like or want, and you enjoy that they do it anyway? M | ||
| 28 Jun 11, 12:33 AM idonna UK(SM), 21 mths |
In the ideal world people of the same preferences meet - so no problem with forcing anyone to do something they don't enjoy and that goes both ways as a caring dominant is going to fulfill subs needs too | ||
| 28 Jun 11, 1:04 AM Super_Slut_321 UK(MK), 4 yrs |
You're a paper tiger and you know it, Lady Susan. But thank you for your help with my Informed Consent profile! I am the Super Slut, Slut of Sluts. Look on my works, ye merely "a little bit naughty" and despair! Edited 28 Jun 11, 1:05 AM by Super_Slut_321 | ||
| 28 Jun 11, 1:06 AM Super_Slut_321 UK(MK), 4 yrs |
Tie her up, but give her an excess of pleasure, rather than an excess of pain. For example, go down on her, use a vibrator on her, take to the peak of pleasure till she begs you to stop, but don't stop. In good old Blue Peter style: Here's one we did earlier. The Super Slut: Putting the "Blue" back into Blue Peter!
I am the Super Slut, Slut of Sluts. Look on my works, ye merely "a little bit naughty" and despair! | ||
| 28 Jun 11, 1:10 AM You_May_Kiss_My_Ring UK(PA), 11 mths |
YES.
Strictly speaking, forced orgasms and restricted orgasms do fall under the umbrella of sadism, but, well, as Nick Cave put it: "It's nice to be nice, I say it again, so with blazing wings I neatly aimed..." "That hat makes you look like you own slaves! ... only you would go to a Goth club wearing a beige hat and dressed in purple!" | ||
| 28 Jun 11, 4:20 PM fitzcaraldo UK(BA), 6 yrs |
Absolutely . It's the combination of the two that makes the experience unique . Confuses the senses because they don't know which one to react to ! Fitz.
Escaped from the parallel universe | ||
| 28 Jun 11, 4:24 PM totallycoverme UK(M), 4 yrs |
I thrive on it when Master's in a sadistic mood because it reassures me that he wants to do mean and nasty things to me because he wants it rather than doing it for my own entertainment.
It took some time for me to reassure Master that it's ok to explore his sadistic side but now that he does he loves it It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice | ||
| 28 Jun 11, 4:33 PM Masterful_M UK(N), 3 yrs |
Works for me ! Any body can dress in black , take a cane or crop in hand -call themselves a Dom/Domme and cause pain and bruising to a sub/slave/pet and thats all they know , they can inflict the sadism but cannot work on the mental/emotional level ...........
When a Dom/Domme can use voice ( threats/degridation/orders) , time and expectation of what is to come in good quantities it is just as much , if not soooooo much better for most sub's . A sub can be hit by anyone , but how you use your voice , commands and demands in any situation sets YOU apart from any other Dom and sub's love that ....Mine do MM Life is not fair ....it's true . | ||
| 30 Jun 11, 8:56 PM Lady_Susan UK, 5 yrs |
How cute. When I want your opinion, I'll thrash it out of you. |
