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| 24 Jun 11, 7:01 PM Badg1Vo UK(B), 6 yrs  |
Reply posted here to avoid "thread hijack" ....
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| 24 Jun 11, 8:33 PM Twistee UK(BA), 3 yrs   |
I'm a masochist, but although pain play can be satisfying by itself, I can always take more if it's mixed with a heavy dose of D/s. The psychological high of subspace and the physical high of an endorphin rush is a potent mixture, and adds a whole other dimension that can turn a great scene into something truly phenominal. ~Twistee~ Everything is better with a twist | ||
| 24 Jun 11, 8:51 PM twilightsilence UK(ME), 16 mths |
I would never have had myself pegged as a masochist and I certainly don't enjoy *all* pain but there are definitely times when I crave to be hurt. I think, for me certainly, what I can and can't do is dictated by the person I am with. I trust Sir implicitly not to REALLY hurt me so I know I can let go. The relationship I have with Sir can be very intense and I know that I completely zone out sometimes and need to feel the physical as much as I feel the sexual and emotional side of our play/relationship.
I have no idea how extreme my tolerance is, Sir has suggested that I could take a lot......I'm a little afraid of how much it will hurt to find out though | ||
| 25 Jun 11, 7:45 AM corvus_solitarius UK(W), 2 yrs      |
Well explained, yes I feel the same, only realising the day after the pain that was inflicted, from the bruises and tender parts that hurt so much! "Please forgive me for my sins, Yes, I swam dirty waters, But you pushed me in" | ||
| 25 Jun 11, 8:39 AM Outlier UK(W), 2 yrs |
For me bondage and discipline must always be present. I enjoy both the mental and physical control aspect, right down to how the submissive is to be dressed. Sadism is also part of the dynamic, although on occasions it is not depending upon my mood. As the Dominant, this is one of my choices and sometimes the bondage alone is enough. It is always sensual, therefore I rarely play in public as it simply is not the same without that frisson of sensuality. And some things are best kept private and between the two people involved. Personally, there is no greater pleasure than the devotion of a submissive who gives herself completely and willingly allows herself to be moulded and nurtured into what I want for my pleasure. A great many outside our world simply cannot comprehend the pleasure and satisfaction submissives derive from service; which at the end of the day they choose to do. It is symbiotic; and pleasurable to both albeit in different ways. "Nothing is so strong as gentleness, nothing so gentle as real strength" St Francis de Sales |
