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CBT - hard or sensual? (19)

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26 Feb 05, 10:13 AM
MistressTeazer
UK(SS), 7 yrs
£

How nice to find this discussion about my absolute fav activity. If anything gets me hot its working on a subs cock and balls. In common with many other Mistresses I enjoy genital bondage, wax, pegs, electrics, squeezing and pulling but when I find a man who is willing to take on the more extreme forms I LOVE IT.

Thats when I can let my sadistic side rip. I love kicking bollocks. The harder the better. I can also use implements like spoons paddles etc. I love using my hands the personal touchisnice and cock piercing is something I am just getting into you can make such pretty patterns with needles.

As to the kicking I will either do it light medium or hard. With my bare feet, high boots or steel toecaps. If anyone out there fancies any of this I am willing to discuss it.

Mistress Teazer

26 Feb 05, 10:13 AM
MistressTeazer
UK(SS), 7 yrs
£

As to the kicking I will either do it light medium or hard. With my bare feet, high boots or steel toecaps. If anyone out there fancies any of this I am willing to discuss it.

Mistress Teazer

26 Feb 05, 7:33 PM
fiftycd
UK, 7 yrs

misscaz wrote:

MsIsis wrote:
Speaking from the other side of the equipment under discussion. I have never liked being too rough, although a certain amount of challenge needs to be included in any CBT. I do prefer to administer a more sensual approach, tightly bound, make that very tightly with a knot positioned to prevent orgasm and then tortured with pleasure until it becomes pain. That's what it is about for me.

XxX

This is something I want to try on my subbie but he leeps safewording on me, any suggestions as to how I can ease him into it?

would love you to use me

28 Feb 05, 9:38 PM
MsShadow
7 yrs

Well I ball bust my boi regularly and provided you know what you are doing they are actually pretty robust the biggest danger is twisting them

Mick_H wrote:
Mark wrote

Surely that is the idea, isn't it all about playing with the mind? (as well as the c&b) The cock and balls can take a lot of punishment before any damage occurs, certainly enough to blow most subbies minds.

slaveneil and misscaz both commented on safewords, thanks, I never had it in mind that a male sub would have a safeword....but that's another story

Mick_H

28 Feb 05, 9:46 PM
notlookingnow
UK, 7 yrs

XxX

i agree with You Ms Isis. i'm a masochist, but let's keep it in the realms of sanity. Bruising that last a few days and aches that are still there in the morning, well that's safe in my book. Lacerations and lasting pain - no, that's just plain silly.

CBT with nothing but long fingernails is exquisite and not harmful. Even hairbrushes or wire brushes are non harmful, but very painful. As for binding, oh yes please, hard and tight (but not for too long please).

All down to choices and limits, but a really experienced Dominant knows what She is doing and how far to go without permanent injury. Trust Your Dominant is the bottom line.

regards

wolf

1 Apr 05, 7:42 PM
LatexBiSwitch
7 yrs

I find trust is a big issue here.When genitals are being played with, it is a lot harder for a dom of the opposite sex to gauge how far to go.I would advise being extra aware of the subs reactions when topping in a CBT scene.

notlookingnow wrote:

XxX

All down to choices and limits, but a really experienced Dominant knows what She is doing and how far to go without permanent injury. Trust Your Dominant is the bottom line.

regards

wolf

1 Apr 05, 7:49 PM
MsIsis
UK, 10 yrs

LatexBiSwitch wrote:
I find trust is a big issue here.When genitals are being played with, it is a lot harder for a dom of the opposite sex to gauge how far to go.I would advise being extra aware of the subs reactions when topping in a CBT scene.

I am always very aware, I watch him like a hawk! He is mine after all and I wouldn't want to damage him!

XxX

In Trust, In Truth
Isis{M}

Edited 25 Apr 05, 5:07 PM by MsIsis

1 Apr 05, 9:23 PM
LatexBiSwitch
7 yrs

Indeed,Ms Isis!! I think this quote from your earlier post sums up erotic CBT,as I practice it, very nicely!

''I do prefer to administer a more sensual approach, tightly bound, make that very tightly with a knot positioned to prevent orgasm and then tortured with pleasure until it becomes pain. That's what it is about for me''.

MsIsis wrote:

notlookingnow wrote:

I am always very aware, I watch him like a hawk! He is mine after all and I wouldn't want to damage him!

XxX

2 Apr 05, 8:39 AM
Patrician
UK(TF), 8 yrs

misscaz wrote:
This is something I want to try on my subbie but he leeps safewording on me, any suggestions as to how I can ease him into it?

Simple. Hide the chainsaw before you start of course!!!!