BDSM dogging! (31)

M & K

Dogging is very different to BDSM. You can't expect the doggers to 'get' BDSM and understand that you're not just being beaten up because your Dom is an abuser. Your Dom could very well end up with a black eye. The doggers are a community that look after each other.

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Better to get involved with the dogging community, I imagine they change venues and by the time outsiders hear where the best place is they move on to avoid such hazards.

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Edited 20 Jun 11, 3:29 PM by Mr_Frost

M & K

Oh contrare Mr Frost

There are several places i know of in the NW that i would be very surprised if plod knew anything about as no ones ever reported any presense from them at these locations.

And in addition i also know of a couple of "organised" sites with lookouts posted as well as a couple of pay to play sites where plos wouldnt even be allowed.

Anyone who thinks that dogging is the unorganised activity it was 5 years ago is sadly mistaken just take a look at the supposed lack of online activity then think where have all the doggers gone and you.ll soon arrive at the fact they now use disguised and coded sites.

In addition forces such as Lancashire have now passed the anti dogging intelligence gathering over to the Wildlife officer who was last seen trying to be in 8 places on one night after a post on a public site only to discove 2 days later all the countys doggers had met somewhere else by pre arranged and coded contact.

But Lady Anna is right most BDSM activities would not go down well with your average dogger by any means. And how am i so up this you may ask well a more fetish type activity i do have a strong intrest in is just made for the crowd who frequent dogging sites.

it may well be different with a M/f scene but I used to amuse myself with occasional trips to a local dogging spot (which had onsite catering facilities aka a burger van); the look on some of their faces provided the amusement

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Edited 21 Jun 11, 6:24 PM by Italia_Vamp

Why is there such an assumption that they won't 'get' it and why that it can't be mixed. It can, to great affect.

As to where, you'll have to join a dogging site, ask for info and wait for messages, they are not publicised for obvious reasons.

Men are not punished for their sins, but by them ~Elbert Hubbard

I have to agree dogging and BDSM are poles apart, which is good for BDSM but Doggers like having sex in front of others in their cars

There are no safe places and Doggers will not understand what you are doing - as mentioned they will probably think you are being assaulted.

Not good.

This is very true!!! Also, you can't expect the doggers to know your rules and/or ettiquite for your scene while you are within their community .... Make sure you state your case, beforehand and during.

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C&J

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