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Politeness .. costs nothing (4)

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Posted by sadistical on Tue 1 Feb 05, 7:31 PM to sadistical's blog.

I like this site, as it's a fine way to see a lot of people with similar interests in a very short space of time.

It's also nice to read other peoples descriptions of different things - for example I came across the delightful term "love virus" which I'd never heard of before and which amused me no end. (OK I'm sadistic, but I've got a sense of humour).

One of the nice things about seeing so many people from different parts of the country is that there's little pressure - it's easy to get nice chat and conversations with people who I might not get on so well with in real life, but because of mutual interests we can have good time regardless.

Because of the large distances often involved i think people open up a lot more - there's not so much pressure to have pictures when meeting is unlikely if not outright not gonna happen.

That's why I think politeness costs nothing and should be important.

If I sent a random message a "thanks" is nice.

A response at all is nice, even if it's "Nah, I only want random sex with people close to me" or "I'm soooo toppy I need discuss nothing, I only make the rules and the conversation" (yeah - these people do exist. sad).

So .. here's a thought, not directed at specific people, not directed at anybody, but politeness is good. And doms shouldnt be above a good laugh, or showing their human sides.

.. Something to think about? Probably not but I feel better now that I've gotten that off my chest. (Which is of course manly, domly, and something you're not worthy of seeing .. yet ;)

Replies

1 Feb 05, 7:33 PM
MsIsis
UK, 10 yrs
Welcome to the world of IC.

XxX

In Trust, In Truth
Isis{M}

1 Feb 05, 8:12 PM
Jezzebelle
UK, 10 yrs
Some of us have manners...

Welcome to IC, bit like real life but with more BDSM, well for me currently any how...

J

Before any word leaves your mouth it must be approved by the three gatekeepers. The first will ask: "Is it true?" The second will ask: "Is it necessary?" The third will ask: "Is it kind?" Anon

1 Feb 05, 11:04 PM
tryst
UK, 8 yrs
i have a manly chest too

which is a bloody shame as i am female...

never mind, spose i can keep handbags in it

2 Feb 05, 2:07 PM
sadistical
UK, 7 yrs
tryst wrote:
i have a manly chest too

never mind, spose i can keep handbags in it

I think I'm worried by the idea of keeping things in your chest - not on it!

Still chests are good, whatever they look like :)

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