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| 16 Jun 11, 3:07 AM Rumburak UK(G), 16 mths   |
Well, apart for a few spin offs from discussions, I sent a few memos to new girls in my scope joining IC, but not really proposing anything. Just to welcome new people - I was welcomed when I joined and put my ad on and I think it's just nice. On one ocassion I got nice, but short reply, she said, she got hundreds to go through... So I need there is no need to welcome new lady members :D | ||
| 16 Jun 11, 5:00 AM roblxxx UK(PO), 17 mths |
I've sent a couple usually in response to a post, received a couple the same way. Other than that, no bad behaviour I'm a bad, bad boy, and I'm going to steal your love. | ||
| 16 Jun 11, 5:06 AM Richtea UK(BN), 2 yrs  |
I don't send any 'seeking' memos out and it's unlikely that I will. I send a few to people I either know or have interacted with, or perhaps comment on something they've said on the boards. "Me and Kevin, we're just not the same" | ||
| 16 Jun 11, 6:02 AM Midlandsdominant UK(B), 3 yrs |
since joining I.C; nearly 3 years ago, I've probably sent 1000 memo's and like the original poster I can count the replies I've had to them on one hand. However, I've lost count of the memos I've received from men looking for a mistress, nothing wrong with that you might think, except I'm a man, and partially my fault, I re wrote my profile via a mobile phone and never noticed for about a week I had put I was looking for men instead of women | ||
| 16 Jun 11, 6:35 AM chrisjunk UK(SE), 13 mths |
No excuse, but I'll own up to not reading profiles properly all the time (though I've not sent many unsolicited memos on this site, more on others). What happens is I see a woman on-line who might interest me and I'm keen to memo her while she's still on-line. If she's not, i know that by the time she next logs on my memo is likely to be at the end of a very long queue and probably not noticed. Pathetic excuse, I know, but it's what happens - and it also means I will often dash off a hurried message with not so much thought behind it. So mea culpa! Though I'm trying to be better. | ||
| 16 Jun 11, 7:09 AM Gentlekink UK(SS), 5 yrs |
In the five odd years I have been on here I can count the memos on my hand and had one reply. This site has a different culture to most so I dont use it that way. I use sites like CM to send mails as that is what is expected on that site. I get loads on there, mostly from women who are looking for a dom but after a few message have all of a sudden has lost their passport while on holiday in Ghana. I do need to make more of a effort in my search so instead of sending memos, I will get my arse down to the london munch and show my face. | ||
| 16 Jun 11, 7:16 AM MisterBear UK(WA), 8 yrs  |
I've sent 1 memo in reply to an ad, which got a reply and a short conversation was started and I learned that my brain isn't wired very well for that kind of thing and so I've not tried since, and that was about 5 years ago. Although since then I've met the lady in question and we get on ok as friends. Oh and I did send a memo in reply to a request before the above one that was actually successful and I met up with the person in question along with loads of other people. But those were the only two. Other memos I've sent have mostly been in reply to memos received. However I have sent a few unsolicited ones to friends to ask them something or inform them of something. And I've sent a few to people I didn't know who were asking advice or in response to a comment they might have made. Can you tell I'm bored and have nothing better to do with my life? | ||
| 16 Jun 11, 7:28 AM Meek1Looking UK(SE), 2 yrs |
Maybe 2 a month,but only to comment about some post they have made,or a brilliant ( in my opionon ) profile.
Never ,never rude , or asking for play or a meet up...just chat.
Only had one that did not reply, so guess I am lucky.
When I was very new on here,meet a Domme and Her partner,and She told me,Ladies on IC receive so many,some would have to spend so much time if they replied to all
memos,that most evenings would be sat doing just that.So they can't and don't.Understandably. As he was on his belly, , and licking Her boots,She took the time to pause,and reflect , to see Herself as he sees Her, a true Goddess!! | ||
| 16 Jun 11, 7:33 AM Rapunzel  UK(WC), 9 yrs |
I probably send about two unsolicited memos a week and I always read the profile and write something interesting. More importantly, I don't memo people who say they don't want to be memoed or have totally different interests from me. I get maybe three unsolicited memos a week (after all, I *am* looking for play partners) and out of those, one is a one-liner, along the lines of 'wanna chat' which I ignore (I say in my profile I will ignore these), one will be from someone who either doesn't have the same interests as me, or, after looking at his profile/posts/photos I decide he's not quite what I'm looking for and one I will start a dialogue with. I always reply with a polite 'thank you but no thank you' to the ones I'm not interested in, unless they are a one-liner. Which drive me nuts.
Rapunzel- all round bad girl Fawcett Hall Lowewood Academy A Kinky Girl's Guide to Life Follow me on Twitter @FawcettHall (if you have nothing better to do!) Edited 16 Jun 11, 7:34 AM by Rapunzel | ||
| 16 Jun 11, 7:33 AM Aristaeus UK(RG), 2 yrs |
I must admit to sending memos to people who have contributed funny or thought provoking postings on the message boards, though I confess that sometimes I don't always read their profiles. I've never memo'd anyone who hasn't replied.
I've never actually memo'd anyone looking to start a relationship. Maybe I ought to. A. |
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