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Spooning (17)

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FluffySub
Posted by FluffySub on Tue 17 May 11, 2:51 PM to FluffySub's blog.

I miss it :-(

It's been an age since I've had a decent spooning. I've started to realise how important it is to me. I think it should be on the Fetishes list on here.

I once had the perfect spooner (or was he the spoonee?). Just the right match of groin/bum, knee front/knee back, surplus arm/shoulder alignment. There have been transient spooners since then but never quite the perfect fit.

Do you think it would be reasonable to try potential new partners out for spoon compatibility before committing to anything? A sort of spoon casting couch?

I think I need to get out more.....

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17 May 11, 2:58 PM
Incandescence
UK, 3 yrs
Aaah, nothing beats a good spooning ... well, maybe not nothing ... I mean, it could come a close second to snuggling in 'the nook', or a really good snog ... but I'd really have to think about it a bit more to come up with a clear winner.

I think you should have it as a requirment on your profile.

You should find out the measurements i.e. leg, arm, torso etc length of your perfect spooner (you are the spoonee) and invite applications from people with those vital statistics only.

I wish you luck in finding spooning perfection :)

Striving to better, oft we mar what's well. ~William Shakespeare, King Lear, 1605
Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without. ~Confucius, Analects

17 May 11, 3:09 PM
Richtea
UK(BN), 2 yrs

I've always loved spooning, it is lovely and warm and comforting, but.....as I was always the one behind,(spooner?) wrapping my arms around her and snuggling, after a while, the arm that is under her body loses circulation and goes numb. So, I want someone to invent a mattress with a little arm-shaped trench so it can stay wrapped under and around a partner for longer without the risk of gangrene setting in.

Aint I the romantic one...

"Me and Kevin, we're just not the same"
Women are from Reigate, men are from Reigate. Not all of them of course, that would be silly, some are from Pimlico, or Cleethorpes, or that little village in Derbyshire who's name eludes me, or Bridlington, or Weston Super Mare, or Clac....

17 May 11, 3:14 PM
andrewsean
UK(CO), 5 yrs

I'd rather be forked good and proper. :-D

I'm fat because everytime I sleep with your woman she gives me a biscuit :-D

17 May 11, 3:19 PM
Helen_Back
UK(MK), 4 yrs
I am crap at spooning, i can never get comfortable or get to hot, prefer holding the person being the spooner i think, but spoonie has its good points, anyway I am getting better at accepting and giving it, and that hole just cuddling stuff.

A trial spooning criteria I reckon should be added, as well as other trails, i.e do they chomp when they eat, what decibel snoring comes in at lol and many a more!

Oh now I am thinking on it, a whole try before you buy period would be good, maybe :)

Edited 17 May 11, 3:20 PM by Helen_Back

17 May 11, 3:25 PM
Amaranth
UK(N), 7 yrs
lima_pink_tigress wrote:
I mean, it could come a close second to snuggling in 'the nook'

When you rest your head in the dippy bit of their shoulder/chest and snuggle up? That's my favourite :) Although, for some reason, it's more comfortable on his right than his left. Weird. I do love a good spoon as well, though. In fact, I think nook snuggling and spooning should definitely be on the 'likes' checklist *nods*

Does your depravity know no bounds?

17 May 11, 3:26 PM
caslad
UK(WF), 4 yrs

FluffySub wrote:
Spooning

I miss it :-(

It's been an age since I've had a decent spooning. I've started to realise how important it is to me. I think it should be on the Fetishes list on here.

I once had the perfect spooner (or was he the spoonee?). Just the right match of groin/bum, knee front/knee back, surplus arm/shoulder alignment. There have been transient spooners since then but never quite the perfect fit.

Do you think it would be reasonable to try potential new partners out for spoon compatibility before committing to anything? A sort of spoon casting couch?

I think I need to get out more.....

Is it also referred to as "cup and saucer" :)

Caslad

17 May 11, 4:03 PM
FluffySub
UK(NN), 6 yrs


Richtea wrote:
wrapping my arms around her and snuggling, after a while, the arm that is under her body loses circulation and goes numb.

Ah well, my perfect spooner was a fair bit taller than me so he used to put the surplus arm over my shoulder and then under a pillow. That way he didn't get crushed by my rather ample torso AND I had something comfy to put my head on.

Perhaps I was spoilt in being introduced to quality spooning so early in my life.

17 May 11, 4:28 PM
penwiggle
UK(CB), 5 yrs

Totally agree!!

You say Ouch like it's a bad word.
They say Pain is in the mind, as if you could discard your mind and be rid of the pain. I don't know about you, my mind is pretty integral to who I am.

17 May 11, 4:52 PM
The_Royal_Pixie
UK(B), 2 yrs
mmmmmmmm MeanMachine is a very good spooner... He gets very hot though, like nuclear, so I have to pull away after a while are swap, Me spooning Him though ends up being a cuggle cuz I am too short to spoon... :-D

*smooches*
Angry_Pixie x
"Her" from off of R3TRObution play munch and @B_D_S_M play parties

17 May 11, 4:58 PM
Dark_Cherry
UK(B), 2 yrs


I adore spoons. Preferably little spoon. But there are good things about being big spoon. Easier to get your hands on all the good bits :-D

Fuck labels. Labels suck. I am a filthy, slutty, sadistic princess :)

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