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| penwiggle |
Ok, so I'm not getting laid. But I DO pass amazingly well in the office, home, Market place, etc, etc. Actually, I've done something pretty amazing that not many in this world get the chance to do. Experience life from both sides of the gender divide, and do it rather successfully if I may say.
I have a successful business, have finished my first novel, have lots of close friends. When people ask, I say life is good, and it's not a lie. Life is good. Ok, sex life sucks and the headaches are shit. I give myself full licence to moan about the headaches, the sex life, well, tough luck I suppose. Many of us are in that boat.
So, new day, new week.... Lada lada.
Trying to look on the bright side, at least on occasion.
Pen
| 16 May 11, 9:33 AM ScottishJamie UK(G), 5 yrs  |
Just is some stuff is good doesn't mean you aren't allowed to have the odd moan about the stuff that isn't and if anyone tells you different, stand on their toes and kick them in the shins. Jay | ||
| 16 May 11, 11:18 AM magpieuk UK(LA), 5 yrs      |
I have my pom pom out and I'm doing a cheer in your honour! Life sounds fantastic lass - well alright sex matters but I'd rather have fantastic life and no sex that fantastic sex and crappy life. As for the headaches - solo pleasuring I believe does help *cough* not that I'd know that from personal experience natch! Come to the darkside - we have cookies... | ||
| 16 May 11, 12:32 PM penwiggle UK(CB), 5 yrs |
Thanks. And others have said the same. But sex is rather important to me, perhaps more so than it is to many. It's not something I can just say 'oh well, shall do without great sex in my life and be happy.'. That's not me. I mean, I didn't have the sex change op so I could sit down on the toilet to pee now did I? I'm not out to insult anyone intelligence, I'm just saying, sex is a pretty huge ingredient in my life. Kinda like trying to make bread without yeast. Sure it works, but is pretty flat and shit without it. But yes, life is good, and when I'm able to see the good I'm prepared to shout about it. Oh, and what really sucks, sorry to put a downer on it, but when masturbating triggers a cluster. Yeah, it happens. Not often, but on occasion. There are people who have sex triggered migraines. Now how's that for evil. Xx pen You say Ouch like it's a bad word. | ||
| 16 May 11, 4:55 PM mootygirl UK(CB), 7 yrs |
Awww, I like the positive feel of this post because although I understand the frustration with your sex life, and I only see too well the impact that the headaches have on you, I also see an amazing person who has just come so far to be who she is... You DO pass amazingly well, you are a GREAT friend and have an openness and a generosity of spirit that is hard to match... xx Come to the edge He said. They said: 'We are afraid.' Come to the edge He said. They came. He pushed them, and they flew. - Guillaume Apollinaire | ||
| 16 May 11, 6:23 PM penwiggle UK(CB), 5 yrs |
Thank you You say Ouch like it's a bad word. | ||
| 16 May 11, 8:14 PM Once_Upon_A_Time 17 mths |
Good for you, girl! : ) "I was having fun, till I saw you. Then my fun went soft" | ||
| 16 May 11, 8:19 PM magpieuk UK(LA), 5 yrs |
Do you know I never realised you used to be a man - that actually has managed to scoot on by me. I mean this as a compliment - you've alway struck me as being feminine. O well fair play then - I can see why sex is kind of an important factor. Don't get me wrong I think it is to most people on here no matter how they like it but having physically, emotionally, psychologically gone through the change then yeah I can see how it would take on a significance for you.
Well good luck in you man hunt hun - I'll put the pom pom made out of sparklers on standby ready for when you do find the fantastic sex Come to the darkside - we have cookies... |
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