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Buzz22
Posted by Buzz22 on Sun 15 May 11, 5:14 PM to Buzz22's blog.

I am struggling today

There is a few things that I want to say. I wrote a big long blog about how I feel but deleted it. Wrote a few text messages to a few people but deleted them. I can't find the words I need to express myself correctly and at the moment I am seconding guessing myself because I am concerned about who might take offence by my words when no offence is meant.

So giving up

Buzz x

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15 May 11, 5:19 PM
reservoir_bunny
UK, 15 mths
Maybe you just need to write it all down and then burn it. It can be quite therapeutic. I think we all have lots of stuff that goes unsent to those whom we want to read it, but it still needs to be sent somewhere.

kind regards

rb

15 May 11, 5:22 PM
penwiggle
UK(CB), 5 yrs

Hate that. I was like that yesterday. Posted comments on Facebook, deleted it, posted softer words, deleted.

Sometimes time to reflect is the best thing, for once said, words are hard to take back.

Good luck. Pen

You say Ouch like it's a bad word.
They say Pain is in the mind, as if you could discard your mind and be rid of the pain. I don't know about you, my mind is pretty integral to who I am.

15 May 11, 5:31 PM
gizmole
12 mths
Never give up. Choose wisely who you open up to, then spill and hope for the best.

gwb

15 May 11, 6:37 PM
gentlemusings
UK(M), 19 mths


penwiggle wrote:
Hate that. I was like that yesterday. Posted comments on Facebook, deleted it, posted softer words, deleted.

Sometimes time to reflect is the best thing, for once said, words are hard to take back.

Good luck. Pen

^^^ agrees, sometimes unspoken words fester, writing them down is release for you x

I am not perfect, i'm not looking for the perfect man, I just want the 'one' for whom i am perfect for....

15 May 11, 7:37 PM
Buzz22
UK, 8 yrs

Writing them down actually made me feel worse this time. The perfectionist in me is frustrated as I am not able to paint my pictures by the words I choose.

I consider myself usually spot on but this time my words fail me

Buzz x

16 May 11, 9:36 AM
Mistress_Amethyst
UK, 5 yrs

giving up is the EASY option ....Boring

xXAXx

~~If you don't like me it's your fault~~

2 Jun 11, 3:05 AM
larra_uk
7 yrs
I know what you mean Rob, its hard to say things sometimes when you just know that there is someone out there just waiting to twist your words to their advantage.

You are an honourable man, anyone that has met you will know that, dont let the fact that some people have to twist everything to suit their own agenda stop you.

Think about what you want to say and then say it, dont worry about the irritant that you have stop you.

xxx

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