12 May 11, 7:28 PM
Perplexion
13 mths |
ren_keeki wrote:
The potential problems of the skinny wristed!
I can be quite bratty you see, and there's no way I'm ever going to pretend I can't escape when I can(!), for me a lot of the fun comes from trying to escape, squirming until I feel exhausted and then finally, reluctantly, give up!
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Mmmhhhhh brats. Predicament bondage may be an answer - any specialists reading who could advise? Or cuffs to bulk out the wrists. Or threat of extreme consequences should you escape. |
12 May 11, 7:33 PM
Ariane
8 yrs |
Properly applied chains can do the job on Houdini subs.
I also have skinny wrists and can slip out of hand cuffs and such easily. Pity I'm not sub. 
ren_keeki wrote:
The potential problems of the skinny wristed!
This may seem like an odd problem but it's actually become such an issue that's it's interfered with play on several occasions. I have very tiny hands and wrists (yup there have been many 'oh really..'? jokes surrounding this  ) and since I'm a wriggly little bugger, when roped up I always escape without fail. I'm not particularly experienced with roping techniques but I have been practising - there seems to be a 'two finger' rule when tying wrists so that circulation is not cut off but in my case, this always means being able to free myself. On the other hand, ignoring this rule or trying to bend it results in my hands turning blue which obviously isn't very safe and I really don't think it's the way to go, even briefly.
I can be quite bratty you see, and there's no way I'm ever going to pretend I can't escape when I can(!), for me a lot of the fun comes from trying to escape, squirming until I feel exhausted and then finally, reluctantly, give up!
It certainly helps if legs are tied as well or I'm tied to something from the wrists but I'm still desperately searching for a wrist tying technique that I can't escape from within a few seconds. I'm wondering if longer lengths of rope are needed to achieve the desired results(?) - the ones used so far have been about 5m in length.
Any suggestions are very welcome.
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12 May 11, 7:42 PM
Dreamstate
UK(WV), 20 mths
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Ariane wrote:
Properly applied chains can do the job on Houdini subs.
I also have skinny wrists and can slip out of hand cuffs and such easily. Pity I'm not sub.
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I have very small wrists but bought some great hand cuffs from ebay which could fit incredibly tiny wrists  I don't think, therefore I am not.
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12 May 11, 7:50 PM
Qwoins_calamity
UK(S), 3 yrs
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Have had this problen in the past. Sir even put the cuffs on the last hole and i escaped . His answer to this...
Two pieces of rope , he says hold it or your strokes are doubled ...
That works .
Failing that try lazarus long on my profile hes good at customising leather he also runs a stall at narnia and wildcats i think. Good girls blush during naughty scenes in the movies. Bad girls smile because they know they can do better.
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13 May 11, 3:35 PM
Kitana
UK(LE), 10 yrs
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Mr_Smith_UK wrote:
Charlie has small wrists herself which means I have a set of restaints just for people like her. Some items where custom made but a nice little pair of leather cuffs which first wrapped round the wrist verlcro sticking to itself then buckled on top of that with padding in the actual cuff itself soon stopped her from getting out.
We picked them up at the BBB, the stall is usually at the back on the ground floor
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Glad to hear the cuffs you purchased from us are doing their job!
Vicky of Freak Clubwear
Freak is 7 years old as a full time fetish business.
FREE online BDSM instructional videos on our site.
www.freakclubwear.co.uk
See us at the LFF and BBB every month and Erotica in November.
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13 May 11, 5:34 PM
ironmaster
7 yrs |
You could always try buying some strippers!
Almost every spark I know has done this daft thing and suffered for it for months afterwards.
we are born in pain
live in fear
die alone
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13 May 11, 7:31 PM
Pinderella
UK, 2 yrs
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ren_keeki wrote:
Thank you very much for the links. Although I've never considered thumbcuffs before I do like the look of them...one for the shopping list I reckon!
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Most of the 'double-lock' thumb-cuffs on the market are cheap products, usually having the word: 'Taiwan' stamped somewhere upon them. They're usually fine to start with, but the teeth wear so that without warning they can tighten upon the thumbs cutting off circulation. I haven't bought any for a while, but have seen them on sale now and then, usually for fifteen pounds, though sometimes more, depending on the outlet. I made a mental note to look for a more durable, safer product the next time I get some, perhaps from a specialist handcuff supplier. Sorry, but I can't think of any names except Hyatt possibly. I'm sure someone here will know.
As for leather bondage mitts, I've only worn them twice, but I did escape from the last pair I wore. It took me five or ten minutes, and I felt sure I wouldn't have managed to escape had the leather been thicker. Surprisingly, bondage-mitts can reduce circulation dangerously too, even when the wrist-cuff isn't too tight, although you may be less likely to experience that particular problem if your hands are very small. Locking mitts are certainly available if you're prone to free yourself, but would rather be unable to.
I've also seen a rubber 'single-mitt', which looked very hot, and which I thought was probably a very effective item. It was a balloon really, but one designed for restraint. Again, I'm not sure where to get one, but someone will probably know. If not, a quick 'rubber-restraints' search should do the trick. I imagine the same attention should be paid to circulation though.
Edited to say that I'm not suggesting the thumbcuffs seen on the link are dodgy at all. I've never ordered any from the site, and it's impossible to tell from the photo. Edited 13 May 11, 7:36 PM by Pinderella
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14 May 11, 3:55 PM
Kitana
UK(LE), 10 yrs
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pinnie wrote:
ren_keeki wrote:
Thank you very much for the links. Although I've never considered thumbcuffs before I do like the look of them...one for the shopping list I reckon!
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Most of the 'double-lock' thumb-cuffs on the market are cheap products, usually having the word: 'Taiwan' stamped somewhere upon them. They're usually fine to start with, but the teeth wear so that without warning they can tighten upon the thumbs cutting off circulation. I haven't bought any for a while, but have seen them on sale now and then, usually for fifteen pounds, though sometimes more, depending on the outlet. I made a mental note to look for a more durable, safer product the next time I get some, perhaps from a specialist handcuff supplier. Sorry, but I can't think of any names except Hyatt possibly. I'm sure someone here will know.
As for leather bondage mitts, I've only worn them twice, but I did escape from the last pair I wore. It took me five or ten minutes, and I felt sure I wouldn't have managed to escape had the leather been thicker. Surprisingly, bondage-mitts can reduce circulation dangerously too, even when the wrist-cuff isn't too tight, although you may be less likely to experience that particular problem if your hands are very small. Locking mitts are certainly available if you're prone to free yourself, but would rather be unable to.
I've also seen a rubber 'single-mitt', which looked very hot, and which I thought was probably a very effective item. It was a balloon really, but one designed for restraint. Again, I'm not sure where to get one, but someone will probably know. If not, a quick 'rubber-restraints' search should do the trick. I imagine the same attention should be paid to circulation though.
Edited to say that I'm not suggesting the thumbcuffs seen on the link are dodgy at all. I've never ordered any from the site, and it's impossible to tell from the photo.
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I've never seen thumbcuffs by Hiatts. They have changed now in the UK to TCH (total control handcuffs) and we do stock their speedcuffs which are great quality.
Bondage mitts are designed to restrict the movement of your hands/fingers, which affects circulation because you are not using them/using them less. We've designed ours with a slightly bulbous top so you have a small amount of movement in the mitt so you can help keep circulation flowing, but to be nice and snug on the wrists. (Photo shoot has just been done so they will be on the site in the next week or so).
Vicky of Freak Clubwear
Freak is 7 years old as a full time fetish business.
FREE online BDSM instructional videos on our site.
www.freakclubwear.co.uk
See us at the LFF and BBB every month and Erotica in November.
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14 May 11, 7:52 PM
Pinderella
UK, 2 yrs
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Kitana wrote:
pinnie wrote:
ren_keeki wrote:
Thank you very much for the links. Although I've never considered thumbcuffs before I do like the look of them...one for the shopping list I reckon!
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Most of the 'double-lock' thumb-cuffs on the market are cheap products, usually having the word: 'Taiwan' stamped somewhere upon them. They're usually fine to start with, but the teeth wear so that without warning they can tighten upon the thumbs cutting off circulation. I haven't bought any for a while, but have seen them on sale now and then, usually for fifteen pounds, though sometimes more, depending on the outlet. I made a mental note to look for a more durable, safer product the next time I get some, perhaps from a specialist handcuff supplier. Sorry, but I can't think of any names except Hyatt possibly. I'm sure someone here will know.
As for leather bondage mitts, I've only worn them twice, but I did escape from the last pair I wore. It took me five or ten minutes, and I felt sure I wouldn't have managed to escape had the leather been thicker. Surprisingly, bondage-mitts can reduce circulation dangerously too, even when the wrist-cuff isn't too tight, although you may be less likely to experience that particular problem if your hands are very small. Locking mitts are certainly available if you're prone to free yourself, but would rather be unable to.
I've also seen a rubber 'single-mitt', which looked very hot, and which I thought was probably a very effective item. It was a balloon really, but one designed for restraint. Again, I'm not sure where to get one, but someone will probably know. If not, a quick 'rubber-restraints' search should do the trick. I imagine the same attention should be paid to circulation though.
Edited to say that I'm not suggesting the thumbcuffs seen on the link are dodgy at all. I've never ordered any from the site, and it's impossible to tell from the photo.
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I've never seen thumbcuffs by Hiatts. They have changed now in the UK to TCH (total control handcuffs) and we do stock their speedcuffs which are great quality.
Bondage mitts are designed to restrict the movement of your hands/fingers, which affects circulation because you are not using them/using them less. We've designed ours with a slightly bulbous top so you have a small amount of movement in the mitt so you can help keep circulation flowing, but to be nice and snug on the wrists. (Photo shoot has just been done so they will be on the site in the next week or so).
Vicky of Freak Clubwear
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No, on reflection it wasn't Hiatt thumbcuffs I'd seen apart from the Taiwanese variety (which I've found to be dangerous - though in fairness, successive pairs of mine were in quite frequent use, so probably wore out quicker than usual), the other thumbcuff manufacturer is Yueil possibly (from South Korea I think. Not sure if my spelling is correct.) No idea how good they are, but I thought I'd try them next. As for the bondage-mitts, yes I was pretty sure the circulation difficulty I experienced was because finger-movement was restricted, but it still surprised me. I'm delighted to hear that you've improved the design of your mitts to help with that. |
16 May 11, 4:45 PM
ren_keeki
UK(SN), 13 mths
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Mr_Smith_UK wrote:
Charlie has small wrists herself which means I have a set of restaints just for people like her. Some items where custom made but a nice little pair of leather cuffs which first wrapped round the wrist verlcro sticking to itself then buckled on top of that with padding in the actual cuff itself soon stopped her from getting out.
We picked them up at the BBB, the stall is usually at the back on the ground floor
Thumb cuffs are awesome but do pose a potential risk that if you fall over and land on your front a nasty injury can happen.
Duct tape is the mother of all quick restraints, not the cheap imitation stuff, go for the proper weather resistant black stuff and your doomed if you dont mind a bit of red skin afterwards for a few hour.
Rope wise, 8mm cotton rope tightly done would easily tie you up
Your welcome to come for a restaint session with your top/dom if you need some advice on restraining the small.
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Thank you for the advice, red skin for a few hours isn't a problem, a nice souvenir of time well spent I reckon.
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