| Pauls_babybeth |
I wanted to wax lyrical about those who come to being little due to being damaged, we are often quite vulnerable and easily abused or taken advantage of. I for one often seek a loving, kind and protective Figure and end up with an oversexualised One who manipulates me into doing what they want, giving sex thrills. Just because it's kink, does it have to be all about sex? i'm easier with spanking, helplessness, discipling and belonging to Someone.
i'd love some thoughts from others on this.
| 5 May 11, 9:51 AM cuddlybeth UK, 6 yrs |
I quite agree have been in this life style for many years now but it seems its all to do with sex very little BDSM nowadays or am I just in wrong end of the age thing | |
| 5 May 11, 11:08 AM Souci_X UK(BA), 5 yrs |
There are people who don't want sexual contact, instantly I am thinking of poly couples but there are more than that. Thing is most people will want sex so it is going to be harder to find people who don't, whenever you go against the norm you decrease your fishing pool | |
| 5 May 11, 11:41 PM geoff917 UK(CO), 3 yrs |
I have found that the best BDSM fun I hav,e had hasnt included sex - lol "In order to finish first, you must first finish".....Roger Penske |