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| 5 May 11, 10:08 PM MisstressvsSolicedog UK(NN), 17 mths  |
are there any left,,, i think we should be told,,, organise then converge,,,,
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| 5 May 11, 10:27 PM Intelligencia UK(GU), 5 yrs |
I am going to come clean, I rather enjoyed being sent to B&Q to buy loads of lengths of different rope and attachy things and other assorted paraphernalia and when the young chap behind the counter asked me 'what are you going to do with this lot then?' (yes, really) I just winked at him and said 'wouldn't you like to know'
I felt so very wicked, it was wonderful so, who buys it? Who cares? As long as you both enjoy using it and can afford it. Where is the wisdom we have lost in knowledge, where is the knowledge we have lost in information? T S Eliot | ||
| 5 May 11, 10:44 PM Lady_Patent UK(SE), 14 mths |
Exactly, if you enjoy it then buy it. I haven't bought a pair of heels in years. I have tried, but I find it awfully dull without a panting gentleman with a buldge in his trousers as I slip on a new pair of shoes in a shop. I wonder if anyone ever notices? However I do like buying some items to use and the thrill of doing it...it adds an element of suprise and imagination. But frankly, you can't beat the presenting of a beautiful new sound. Apart from using it of course... Lpx
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| 6 May 11, 2:58 AM PeterPan1972 UK, 8 yrs  |
Because we don't trust the dimly, sorry domly ones to but the right stuff? I mean, what do they know about what feels good? The fact that we live at the bottom of a deep gravity well, on the surface of a gas covered planet going, at 66,000 miles an hour, around a nuclear fireball 90 million miles away and think this to be normal is obviously some indication of how skewed our perspective tends to be. | ||
| 6 May 11, 5:28 AM Adwhored UK(BN), 10 yrs  |
Because it presses your buttons. The question is why do
I buy really surely? So, you either like being told to, or you like the potential of what you're buying will bring (or you believe so), or you simply like buying! Possibly all three. It's not functional per se, you don't " need" it. (Some would argue you're even a victim here too, which is interesting as Dom/mrs buy, so are also consequently victims  )Perception (does the item look good?); your needs (do I really need or want the item?); learning (what do I already know about this product?); beliefs (what do I believe about/what is my attitude towards this item?) and lifestyle (is the item acceptable for my lifestyle, and does it appeal to my interests?) you're also fooled into buying it with consumer marketing led by placement, sales technique, smell and visual stimulation and hey we like the latter two quite a lot! http://www.marcbowles.com/courses/adv_dip/module...
That's why you buy lol Debs x "Woman in her greatest perfection was made to serve and obey man." John Knox | ||
| 7 May 11, 9:39 AM midsubi 13 mths |
I buy all my own items as I think its more hygenis midsubi | ||
| 7 May 11, 11:03 AM Haemogoblin 4 yrs |
Deffo agree on this! Don't mind being given a shopping list - i love shopping lol but i'd much rather be asked to make it instead.
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| 7 May 11, 11:09 AM blitzkrieg_burlesque DE, 2 yrs |
i have never bought anything to be punished with... that is my Masters job.. he knows what is best in that department, it is hardly my place to tell him what to spank me with. | ||
| 7 May 11, 7:12 PM MisstressvsSolicedog UK(NN), 17 mths |
If you ever need any pointer's or help makeing piece's i,m more than happy to advise on what leather, tools, etc where to buy how to put together,, i have been makeing leather kit for some years Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish | ||
| 7 May 11, 10:18 PM MamaGoth UK(BN), 3 yrs |
retail foreplay  |
you asked lol!.
