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| hollythedolly |
on Sat 30 Apr 11, 12:39 PM to the Dark_Play group.
Do you like to be humiliated by your dom or are you like me get really angry.
What aspect of play do you feel embarrassed and wish the ground would swallow you up.
Or is it the way you are spoken to in public?
| 1 May 11, 10:04 AM MissAnnThropist UK(SE), 3 yrs    |
Great set of questions there. Humilliation is a very personal topic and one person's idea of perfect hunilliation is another's anathema: to be truly effective for me I find I need to know the person inflicting this on me fairly well. As an example, a sure-fire deal-breaker of humilliation for me personally is to call me a slut/whore or imply I slap around with anyone with a pulse: it pushes all the wrong buttons for me and makes me feel about as worthless (in a bad way) and unlikely to submit as possible. It also shows that the person making such comments has no idea about me and is simply going for a lazy standard option. Instead I withdraw into myself and comments of that ilk just eat away at me for all the wrong reasons. The same can be said for any derogatory comments about my weight - just way too close to home for comfort. However, I can still be humiliated in a way that makes me want the ground to open up and swallow me whole. Oddly enough, positive or neutral observations (if being verbal) can do this for me, or just making me do things I just don't feel comfortable doing can push the right buttons. As an example, I want to curl up and die of embarrassment when observations are made about my state of arousal during a scene, but it still has a positive impact as the comment is not one that triggers negative reactions in me. Combining humiliation with objectification works really well for me: if I'm made to do something for someone else's pleasure, and my pleasure in doing the act is irrelevant (especially if it's something out of my comfort zone) can put me in a very happy state. I want your drama |
| 1 May 11, 11:51 AM vixylix 2 yrs |
I haven't had much experience with humiliation. Things like being called names by a Dom, being made to act like a footrest etc don't really make me feel humiliated...I tend to just giggle at it. However, as a bit of an ass virgin, when he recently went there (just with a toy) I felt really embarrassed. All I could think about was 'oh what if he finds poo???' I was more concerned about what he would think, would he think me gross, would he be turned off? I suddenly went a bit red and couldn't wait for it to be over. Having said that I want to do it again...
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| 3 May 11, 9:48 AM wifestoy UK, 15 mths |
As you can see by the pics mistress has posted on here Mistress loves to keep me naked when others are dressed I find this so humiiating Feeling so exposed and vunrable. |
| 3 May 11, 11:43 AM hollythedolly UK(NN), 2 yrs  |
Try looking at yourself naked in a hall of mirrors whilst he jiggles your fat.
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| 3 May 11, 5:22 PM myface_yourseat UK(WF), 11 yrs |
Suffering humiliation is all part of being a sub / slave. It helps to keep the sub mindful of his or her place within the relationship. I find lots of things humiliating and yet the fact that my Mistress was humiliating me also made me feel proud that She was affording me Her time and that She was taking enjoyment from my situation. I particularly find providing toilet service humiliating; my Mistress knowing that I would willingly put myself through the humiliation in order to please Her and to remain Her slave. I found that being instructed to "breath deeply through your nose" when my Mistress "broke wind" when sat on my face to be humiliating. Being kept in chastity and told to allow other Females to inspect the device and then to have my chastity regimen discussed as though I was not there. Also humiliating is being feminised in front of other females and being required to curtsy as I went about serving them with food, drinks, also being told off, admonished and or disciplined in front of other Females. Oh to be owned again!! Edited to add one I really, really dislike. That is, being tied down, made to orgasm and then forced to consume my own cum. Yuk, yuk, yuk. Total humiliation! Edited 4 May 11, 9:37 AM by myface_yourseat |
| 5 May 11, 11:14 PM Adwhored UK(BN), 10 yrs |
Emotional masochism is where it's at for me and that's a lot of humiliation! Him comparing me to someone else he wants more than me, who is younger, slimmer, tighter, better. Watching videos of him fucking her, seeing pics or listening to recordings, masturbating to it, taunting me. Him saying all these things while he fucks me. Me watching them together or to be made to be underneath them, or to clean them up afterwards! That I'm not good enough etc. So yes nasty, dark and extreme humiliation is my thing! Especially as he does all this and has another sub! I do get angry and fight it at times and at that point I need more control, more humiliation and then to be held!! "Woman in her greatest perfection was made to serve and obey man." John Knox Edited 5 May 11, 11:16 PM by Adwhored |
