Does childhood experience of the belt/spanking.... (61)

Justbob wrote: As a child I was regularly slapped/spanked and bit with the slipper.... Although I'm sure i deserved it

I expect this is a typo but it made me laugh. Slipper/Jack Russell hybrids trained to nip naughty boys.

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Rosalee wrote: Justbob wrote: As a child I was regularly slapped/spanked and bit with the slipper.... Although I'm sure i deserved it I expect this is a typo but it made me laugh. Slipper/Jack Russell hybrids trained to nip naughty boys.

Ah, that's just cracked me up! I'm imagining a tatty old tartan slipper with sharp pointy teeth along the front - quivering in biting anticpation: "Get 'im!!"

Edited 29 Apr 11, 3:31 AM by Merrick

I think what Kitty has to say is relevant. I didn't experience CP at school nor see anyone beaten. I didn't experience it at home, and I'm happy that I didn't as I had a stable, loving non violent upbringing.

Corporal punishment was abolished in the eighties, nineties maybe for public schools, and probably later for other parts of the UK. For some people, this is quite a long time ago!

For those who say an experience of CP has influenced their current outlook, yes it probably has. But would they still want to be involved with it had they not experienced it, yes they probably would. They can pinpoint a moment, with hindsight, when their interest in CP evolved, but that doesn't mean it wouldn't have manifested itself in time without that initial exposure.

In due course, there's going to be a lot more people who haven't had direct exposure to CP in their youth, but I have no doubt that the interest will still exist.

I do often wonder if other experiences through childhood shaped me though, I can still remember the shame of waking up in a wet bed, not my urine, but my mothers, for years I always associated the smell of urine with brandy. I can remember being ashamed as i walked to school with the lingering smell and what do you know I like humiliation now.

Not sure where my foot fetish comes from, just hope it was not from my mother.

Don't get me wrong I have made peace with my mother now.

So for me I would say that things that happened early on did have an effect but there is more that I can't explain.

Merrick wrote: Rosalee wrote: Justbob wrote: As a child I was regularly slapped/spanked and bit with the slipper.... Although I'm sure i deserved it I expect this is a typo but it made me laugh. Slipper/Jack Russell hybrids trained to nip naughty boys. Ah, that's just cracked me up! I'm imagining a tatty old tartan slipper with sharp pointy teeth along the front - quivering in biting anticpation: "Get 'im!!"

Laugh it up! It's not funny, my dad was into cross breeding and that was one of his most evil results..... Lol

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As a child I was often beaten with a belt, by my mother, which was abuse.

After many years of successful therapy, I've ended up a fairly well rounded and self aware person (either that or I'm in a happy self-delusional bubble ), hence exploring and accepting my sexuality, in every sense.

I also happen to enjoy being spanked...BUT the idea of a belt makes me very uncomfortable, any other implement is fine - in theory, I don't know my limits yet, but not the belt. I also feel scared of the idea of being hit anywhere other than the buttocks, in particular my lower back (again where my mother often belted me).

I find the idea that my preferences could stem from past abuse quite disturbing, but then again I don't like things which specifically remind me of that so either...it's a coincidence, or it does stem from my past and my avoidance of specific scenarios is my sub-concious protecting me and allowing me to enjoy my kinks without psychological discomfort.

Ultimately, wherever my preferences stem from, they are part of who I am now...and I believe I would be unhappy if I denied them. So I accept that this is who I am now regardless of where it stems from.

My curiosity these days is more academic as I like to know how/why things (and people) work etc and have enough knowledge/insight into how childhood can affect adulthood to whet my appetite for more.

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