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Domestics- the stuff of myth and legends? (95)

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27 Apr 11, 6:26 PM
Lady_Em
UK, 2 yrs
Cal451 wrote:

Steak is usually my going rate for gardening work. I think it's quite a fair price actually :)

And there I was thinking of offering cake!

Edited 27 Apr 11, 6:27 PM by Lady_Em

27 Apr 11, 6:31 PM
Cal451
UK(NN), 3 yrs

Lady_Em wrote:
Cal451 wrote:

Steak is usually my going rate for gardening work. I think it's quite a fair price actually :)

And there I was thinking of offering cake!

Cake will get your hoovering done as well as the garden Lady Em :)

28 Apr 11, 10:55 AM
MistressMephistoUK
UK(RG), 4 yrs
£
Finding a perfect houseboy who can give a good massage and/or foot rub is a bonus with excellent household skills! I definitely prefer mature chaps and miss my lovely boy who retired overseas.

::sigh::

When you 'click' and have that special rapport it is a delight.

MM

28 Apr 11, 5:00 PM
ten501uk
UK(LS), 15 mths

my domestic is the wife,but dont you dare tell her lol
28 Apr 11, 6:19 PM
CookieMonster
UK, 6 yrs
Ripperz wrote:
SirOpenSource wrote:
I've even offered to reward by means of chocolate but to no avail!

;)

SOS

I've offered biscuits.

:)

Ive done it for a few Dommes. To me its peacework/task and finish but I know some Dommes get of on ordering or having a sub do it which appeals to me. To me its no big deal and can lead to spin offs like making a new friend etc.

28 Apr 11, 6:33 PM
countess_de_jager
4 yrs
£
Get a 'Cinderella sissy. All you have to do is dress her in pink maids outfit and tell her she is cinders and your the wicked step mother. I have one and when in vanilla/boy treat him as a son and make them clean out of respect for their mother. No sex no tantrums or a spanked bum. They are happy to be left.

Ripperz wrote:
Domestics- the stuff of myth and legends?

I was talking to a friend earlier who's had similar experiences to mine, in the so far futile quest to find a good domestic. And I know that many other Dommes have had similar issues. So why is that? I can see that finding a bloke who'd like to come and clean and perform domestic duties for me without any sexual contact is unlikely. Or is it? We have a whole group dedicated to matching maids/domestics to the right Dommes, so they must exist.

Is domestic service something that's a common fantasy, but rarely comes to fruition? The idea of serving a Domme seems so sexy, but when you're on your own in the bathroom scrubbing the bath, is it really what you wanted?

I know we've talked about this kind of stuff before, so from a different angle, tell me this lovely folk of IC, do you have a successful arrangement with a maid/domestic? Are you a domestic who's blissfully happy serving a dominant? Or have you had endless issues with fantasists?

All of your experiences welcome.

3 May 11, 4:04 AM
MadameCaramel*
UK(E), 5 yrs
£

Reading this thread made realise how luck im to have a beautiful submissive that becomes my maid at the click of my fingers.

But like everthing else we have our moments...been a clean freak my standards are very high so i spent 8 months training him closely(over-looking everything very closely ) and teaching all i want and like.

Now he is able to do it to my standards,cook the food a like(portuguese)know exactly what film/ series to book on BBC(oh yes),sort my wadrobes,how to prepare an afternoon tea , Basically knows his mistress... There is discipline in my household but also plenty of love,so life is great.

PS Forget to mention i been served for 8 months in a daily basis @gentlemantom or gibberish tom(dont know this days) We click since begining,he witty,fun,learnt how to be organised but needs a firm hand!!!!! xxx

Having said that i had at least 20 unsucessul candidates,some genuine but disconnected and clueless others a bunch of fantastists. Mc x

http://madamecaramel.c4slive.com www.clips4sale.com/store/21346

Edited 3 May 11, 6:33 PM by MadameCaramel

3 May 11, 1:33 PM
submitman1
UK(SS), 6 yrs

I was very fortunate in meeting a wonderful Lady who needed a domestic and i served her for 2 years, alas Miss decided to leave the lifestyle but is still on my network and i loved cleaning her house. It was non sexual and often non 'play' but i always enjoyed the time spent with her.

If i may be so forward with those Ladies seeking such a male, i believe the secret for us was that Miss was local, this is important as hours can be agreed but flexible, we both worked full time. Miss set out her requirements in a contract and made me meet every standard demanded of her, high protocol was important for both of us. Ms made it clear that no sexual contact was acceptable to her from our first social meeting. The rules were plain and agreed well in advance.

As for 'play' Miss made it clear that i would be trained to a high standard by her and all work would be inspected, but i would work alone and not supervised, and finally 'play' was not 'play' but punishment and that if Miss decided to punish me it would be remembered and too many repeats would lead to instant banishment.

Now you may say that you all have tried this but to me the most important meeting we ever had was in a coffee shop one evening at Lakeside where we both had the chance to say no and the rules were set. My good fortune was that we said yes and i still miss her and my time working under her authority.

I hope you all find somebody who will do the same for each other as we did.

When the rich wage war it's the poor who die.

3 May 11, 4:32 PM
Puddin_Von_Puss
UK(WA), 6 yrs

MADAMECARAMEL wrote:
Reading this thread made realise how luck im to have a beautiful submissive that becomes my maid at the click of my fingers.

But like everthing else we have our moments...been a clean freak my standards are very high so i spent 8 months training him closely(over-looking everything very closely ) and teaching all i want and like.

Now he is able to do it to my standards,cook the food a like(portuguese)know exactly what film/ series to book on BBC(oh yes),sort my wadrobes,how to prepare an afternoon tea , Basically knows his mistress... There is discipline in my household but also plenty of love,so life is great.

Having said that i had at least 20 unsucessul candidates,some genuine but disconnected and clueless others a bunch of fantastists. Mc x

That so gives me hope!

It's the little things Dude, the little things.

3 May 11, 4:50 PM
Beau_Tox
UK(CB), 7 yrs


MADAMECARAMEL wrote:
Having said that i had at least 20 unsucessul candidates,some genuine but disconnected and clueless others a bunch of fantastists. Mc x

YOU FUCKING LIAR!!!!

There are NO fantasists on the internet!!!

Everyone knows that.

.
Let's all beat up on someone, because they represent something that we don't like. Fuck yeah, beat on them!

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