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Female led relationship. (63)

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18 Apr 11, 10:04 PM
valleyrose17
UK(BS), 2 yrs
I'm VERY confused! Youve been on here for 5 years and you haven't discovered the concept of Dommes yet? or are you being sarcastic and saying they dont exist.
unfaltered wrote:
Female led relationship.

I have been looking for this kind of relationship. It seems that there are either not many looking for this or maybe I just missed the boat. Is there any one out there?

Are there any people in this kind of relationship that can give me advice?

18 Apr 11, 10:06 PM
thatboyspike
UK(N), 3 yrs
IndelibleMarker wrote:
Plenty of men looking for it. Not many women looking for it.

Unless you go to the vanilla world - a world in almost every woman will say she's not looking for it, but will eventually take over with her incessant nagging.

Good luck!

But then when you ask them to sit on your face "it's disgusting."

Not fair!

18 Apr 11, 10:21 PM
Beau_Tox
UK(CB), 7 yrs


All_of_Me wrote:
Lady_Lancashire wrote:
Eh?

^^ What she said ^^

What she said about what the other one said.

.
Oh you poor little lamby-kin, does the nasty post above upset you..?

18 Apr 11, 10:36 PM
gentlemusings
UK(M), 19 mths


Beau_Tox wrote:
All_of_Me wrote:
Lady_Lancashire wrote:
Eh?

^^ What she said ^^

What she said about what the other one said.

Nooo silly, she didnt say that, she said that she said it! KEEP UP!!!

I am not perfect, i'm not looking for the perfect man, I just want the 'one' for whom i am perfect for....

19 Apr 11, 8:51 AM
Puddin_Von_Puss
UK(WA), 6 yrs

I'm all confused by this thread. Is the poster asking if Dommes exist, or am I so thick I've missed a sentence each time I've read it?

It's the little things Dude, the little things.

Edited 21 Apr 11, 12:25 PM by Puddin_Von_Puss

19 Apr 11, 10:18 AM
El_Presidente
UK(G), 4 yrs


scotchmystery wrote:
Unfortunately in a vanilla world being led by a woman is not a quality women find attractive in men. Good luck with that, you'd need to come across a woman that defies genetic programming and sees lack of strength (not physical) and an inability to lead as attractive features.

Is that how you view female submissives? Weak and unable to lead? I'll bet they're as flattered as hell!

As others have said, being submissive is a choice, not a weakness, whatever the gender of the submissive.

"...Try as I like, a small crack appears in my diplomacy dyke."

Edited 19 Apr 11, 10:20 AM by El_Presidente

19 Apr 11, 10:22 AM
LadyAliana
UK(B), 2 yrs
No you read the thread as a question ,Are there any Dommes out there who are after a relationship?

It was once again waylaid by totally off topic replies.

No wonder less and less are posting and this site is getting boring to read through now.

Ripperz wrote:
I'm all confused by this thread. Is the guy actually asking if Dommes exist, or am I so thick I've missed a sentence each time I've read it?

What's going on? It's made me doubt myself as a person.

Sticks and stones may break your bones, But whips and chains excite me.

19 Apr 11, 10:16 PM
Monkey_Wench
UK(B), 20 mths

LadyAliana wrote:
No you read the thread as a question ,Are there any Dommes out there who are after a relationship?

It was once again waylaid by totally off topic replies.

No wonder less and less are posting and this site is getting boring to read through now.

Ripperz wrote:
I'm all confused by this thread. Is the guy actually asking if Dommes exist, or am I so thick I've missed a sentence each time I've read it?

What's going on? It's made me doubt myself as a person.

Asking if there are any Dommes looking for relationships is just a poorly disguised advert. Adverts are not allowed on the main boards. Therefore I, and possibly some others, see this as fair game, and the urine will be duely extracted.

If off topic replies were removed from this thread, it would just be shorter, and not worth reading.

You say less people are posting. Less than were posting when? Are there stats available?

Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things!

19 Apr 11, 11:06 PM
NANA777
UK(SW), 3 yrs
There are many women who would like to have or are in a female let relationship.

I have met so many dommes, maybe much more than you have done. Got to know them and became friends with them. So I can guarantee 100% that there are many!

You said 'you have been in several D/s relationships over the years'. Well done to you! So you MUST know they exist then.

...why asking an advice? You don't need it. I don't understand you at all!

20 Apr 11, 12:47 AM
Lady_Lancashire
23 mths
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My response to the O/P was clear, precise and not impolite but very genuine as I could not fathom at all what he was asking.

We can all of us now request on threads we start that people do not go off topic and the O/P could still edit his post to that vein.

Using a profile on IC that was formulated for another website will work less well than writing a new and more customised piece about yourself and obviously the O/P has missed out on communications by the fact that he was unaware of how the profile system works and how it doesn't, so making his post a bit premature.

Dating sites may be full of discussions about the difficulties in finding a partner but IC is more specialist and the number of posts that unfortunately go on here suggesting that dominant females are not .... etc .... etc .... etc .... is probably quite disheartening to those it's about and pretty prejudical. Particularly when it is obvious that the person doing that has barely glanced at the site and the community of people here-in.

LadyAliana wrote:
No you read the thread as a question ,Are there any Dommes out there who are after a relationship?

It was once again waylaid by totally off topic replies.

No wonder less and less are posting and this site is getting boring to read through now.

Ripperz wrote:
I'm all confused by this thread. Is the guy actually asking if Dommes exist, or am I so thick I've missed a sentence each time I've read it?

What's going on? It's made me doubt myself as a person.

The Red Rose Whispers Of Passion (J o'B R)

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