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| anncat |
on Sat 16 Apr 11, 11:44 PM to anncat's blog.
Do you ever get over your ex's? I was slave to my ExMaster for 3 years... this was over 2 years ago. I still think about him all the time. Crickey!! Is it the intensity of a M/s relationship that once you have completely given yourself to someone, you can't 'ungive'. Anyways, he contacted me recently and said he may be drifting through my area and do I fancy a vist.....I said yes. (shit)!!
| 16 Apr 11, 11:47 PM OllieVW 3 yrs |
Simple answer is yes an X is an X for a reason, if youve agreed to meet you stillburn a candle for him. Lust is fun but hard on the heart. Enjoy but be careful. Itll hurt in the end and thats coming fro a Masochist X "I dont dream about an easy life. I dream of living long enough in a hard one". | |
| 17 Apr 11, 11:56 AM hollythedolly UK(NN), 2 yrs  |
Agree with the above post's but saying that sometimes it gives you a closure. You may meet up with him and think "thank fuck for that" and concentrate on the things that silently pissed you off about that person. Last ex i met up with i watched his "Lady Di" head tilt and thought gosh he's more of a lady than i am. | |
| 17 Apr 11, 8:55 PM PlayerOfGames UK(E), 5 yrs |
Dunno what you mean? vanilla or kinky ex's? I think every single partner of mine has been different. Some I broke up with, some broke up with me. We have varying levels of friendship and attraction. One walked out on me and married the lodger. Did I ever want her back? - not on your nelly. I might attend her funeral but don't really want to see her before that. On the other hand I have no problem starting up a relationship with an old flame when we are both attracted to each other and the reasons for breaking up are no longer valid. |
