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| Wed 13 Apr 11, 8:46 PM Goddess_Lucy UK(SW), 19 mths  |
Has anyone who has been kept in chastity found after a while their 'appetite' has gone or significantly decreased? Or in fact has anyone who has enforced chastity experienced this in the person they have kept in chastity? | |
| 13 Apr 11, 8:53 PM subdoug30 UK(GU), 7 yrs  |
Dear Goddess Lucy, is that the appetite for food or to be kept in chastity?
as a slave kept up to 6 weeks in chastity i can certainly say in my case the neither was a problem, esp with regular tease & denial sub doug | |
| 13 Apr 11, 9:40 PM foxgirl UK(LN), 22 mths |
When on an orgasm ban I just stopped thinking about it. Got really quite detached from my desire to masturbate/have sex/orgasm. Didn't bother me. And then my dom found out, and instructed there was to be daily edging and that made it rather impossible to forget. Edited 13 Apr 11, 9:41 PM by foxgirl | |
| 13 Apr 11, 9:42 PM Graci_e UK, 5 yrs |
if i go a while without an orgasm i just stop wanting it...it doesnt bother me that i'm not getting it. i think it's the difference between men and women though...men crave it more women forget about it  | |
| 13 Apr 11, 10:14 PM filthypaws UK(CF), 2 yrs |
No. I've heard about it. chastity orientated femdom websites sometimes spout about it, but I personally have never experienced it. Mind you I think I'm a nymphomaniac so perhaps that's why I haven't. Miss ::: You shouldn't get stressed, it's bad for you.... Me ::: Well living with you is going to be fucking terminal, isn't it? | |
| 13 Apr 11, 10:18 PM mainyswhore 17 mths |
use it or lose it "cums" to mind..... | |
| 13 Apr 11, 10:20 PM MistressClarabella UK(G), 3 yrs      |
I put my ex male sub on a wankin ban & after a week or so his sex drive decreased dramatically until I teased him of course, so it's not just women! | |
| 13 Apr 11, 10:24 PM poutanaki UK(M), 10 yrs |
With no stimulation then yes sex drive does dip. But with short periods of not being able to touch, interspersed with lots of edging and teasing then no, you just end up pre-occupied and horny. Saying that I have only been 6 weeks at most. I do know of others who have been longer though. Your so pretty when your on your knees. Disinfected, eager to please. Edited 13 Apr 11, 10:25 PM by poutanaki | |
| 14 Apr 11, 8:42 AM myface_yourseat UK(WF), 11 yrs |
I agree with Slave_Claire. I become much more submissive and attentive when in chastity and denied and this seems to increase, as does my desire to have a release, as the period of denial goes on. Being locked into a chastity device is a constant reminder that you are under the control of your owner, it never leaves you. I increasingly want to please and find myself begging to be allowed to carry out increasingly humiliating and degrading tasks and personal services in the hope that my service will eventually earn my owners compassion to allow me a release. It's almost like becoming a faithful puppy dog where your very existence is dependent on your owner. Such a strong element of control and ownership in my case. | |
| 14 Apr 11, 9:47 AM Goddess_Lucy UK(SW), 19 mths |
Thank you all very much for your comments It has certainly helped in the planning of my subs chastity regime Another question - has anyone experienced a sub/slave feeling resentment if placed in chastity too long? | |
| 14 Apr 11, 10:13 AM jasbound 24 mths |
I was kept in chastity for 6 months straight and mercilessly teased and taken to the edge. I wanted to cum more and more each day After the 6 months I was made to cum as quickly as possible. Then I was put back in chastity for another 3 months I wanted it more and more each day It made me very submissive and very obedient. Loved it! |
