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OPEN DOORS? CLOSED DOORS? (96)

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11 Apr 11, 7:15 PM
Rays_talena
UK, 5 yrs
£

stillfit wrote:

Rays_talena wrote:

stillfit wrote:
i cant believe i just read what talena said . Any one who goes to a club and isnt easy in public should not go, If they want private help fine then have them in your house and charge them or not a syou feel right , But dont ever shut a room in a club down for anyone . I will ensure i never go to any such club in the future where such practices go on

This isnt a club we are speaking about its a private venue with private invities. There are many people that attend that play behind a closed door like there are many that attend that like to play with the door open. It is a personal choice.

Respectfully

talena{R}

In that cas ei apologise . It wa snot what i had understood from the OP

No problem at all thank you.

Respectfully

talena{R}

"What hangs upon the wall?" a Master might ask. "The slaves whip, Master," she responds. "How may I be more pleasing?" Players of Gor Pg25

11 Apr 11, 7:25 PM
Ariane
8 yrs

It's easy to play totally privately in your own home. What's the point of going to the party?

11 Apr 11, 7:29 PM
Graci_e
UK, 5 yrs

Ariane wrote:
It's easy to play totally privately in your own home. What's the point of going to the party?

Some people can't play because they may have children. They may be a tad younger or indeed older i dont wanna discriminate and live with parents. They may be in a flat and have super thin walls. Also they may be starting out new to it all nervous and wanting to get advice...the best place for then is to go to a club and learn how to play safely (better for the NHS if you ask me) and sure if they need privacy for a bit then so long as the club can accomodate that i don't see the issue.

i play in public i have no problem people watching me but occasionaly it's nice to be in a club using nice equipment and have some privacy. Last friday for example Wwe used a smaller dungeon area closed the door and had some Uus time away from the crowds. It was lush and no one complained cos there were other rooms available.

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11 Apr 11, 7:30 PM
Romola
UK, 7 yrs

Ariane wrote:
It's easy to play totally privately in your own home. What's the point of going to the party?

But having said that, it appears that nobody was stopped from playing in order to give the couple privacy. So the situation really is more analogous to asking someone to stop sitting on a piece of equipment so that you can use it for play.

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11 Apr 11, 7:37 PM
SubWhisperer
UK, 5 yrs

Wonderfull what a bit of context can do – thank you talena

So – no interupted play – no drama

Ariane – we all take “small steps” getting into public play – there's nothing wrong with being shy at first …. and the demonstration of electrical play mentioned is just one of the advantages of playing “out”

This does now bring into question the validity of the “OP” - but i'll just sit back and watch that one …... never did like chicken feathers.

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11 Apr 11, 7:38 PM
Rays_talena
UK, 5 yrs
£

Ariane wrote:
It's easy to play totally privately in your own home. What's the point of going to the party?

Some of the people that attend this venue have extremely private lives with work, family and having the chance to attend the different events/venues where there is the personal choice to play in private is ideal for them.

Respectfully

talena{R}

"What hangs upon the wall?" a Master might ask. "The slaves whip, Master," she responds. "How may I be more pleasing?" Players of Gor Pg25

11 Apr 11, 7:40 PM
Rays_talena
UK, 5 yrs
£

SubWhisperer wrote:
Wonderfull what a bit of context can do – thank you talena

So – no interupted play – no drama

This does now bring into question the validity of the “OP” - but i'll just sit back and watch that one …... never did like chicken feathers.

Thank you SubWhisperer no problem at all.

Respectfully

talena{R}

"What hangs upon the wall?" a Master might ask. "The slaves whip, Master," she responds. "How may I be more pleasing?" Players of Gor Pg25

11 Apr 11, 7:42 PM
Rays_talena
UK, 5 yrs
£

tarts_wench_gracie wrote:

Ariane wrote:
It's easy to play totally privately in your own home. What's the point of going to the party?

Totally agrees with you there gracie girl is the same in many ways as well

love

talena{R} xx

"What hangs upon the wall?" a Master might ask. "The slaves whip, Master," she responds. "How may I be more pleasing?" Players of Gor Pg25

11 Apr 11, 10:29 PM
inappropriate

UK(CF), 3 yrs

I very much appreciate having the option to play privately in the few places that offer it. I'm sure other people feel the same: not everyone is comfortable with an audience, but at the same time, playing at an event is sometimes desirable. I believe that people are made aware of the etiquette and what is isn't acceptable.

Now it's been explained, and it seems that the people wishing to play privately thought the other people in the room's scenes were over, I can understand the behaviour much more and think it's completely acceptable.

11 Apr 11, 11:05 PM
davina_louise
UK(BS), 5 yrs

Rays_talena wrote:

Respectfully

talena{R}

What's the definition of a club? I would say the £15 entrance fee makes it such. I have been to very many events at that establishment for over two years ALWAYS paying the same entrance fee and often bringing in others from across my side of the water and even helping out with larger items of equipment to boost the lack of the 'club's' own equipment to help out the former operator

I didn't like being asked to leave when my personal play (a rarity) was incomplete and was being asked to do so secondhand and not directly by the person(s) who wished to have the room all to themselves.

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