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| 7 Apr 11, 7:24 AM valleyrose17 UK(BS), 2 yrs  |
There are no words - I'm so sorry........xxx
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| 7 Apr 11, 7:48 AM SansSerif UK(N), 3 yrs  |
I just wanted to record my feelings for you and have only one thing to add. As Frankie said earlier, "Its important that you honour your relationship, in whatever ways you can find." Talking about Him, sharing memories, remembering Him are essential ways of coming to terms with His absence. Don't under-rate family and friends who might not have known about the special relationship. We all have secrets which make us receptive to the confidences and needs of others.
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| 7 Apr 11, 8:16 AM dannigirl1 UK(CV), 2 yrs |
I am so sorry hun, i cant begin to understand how you are feeling. We lost my sister sub(Masters number 1 sub) a year ago and that was traumatic but to lose a Master is beyond comprehension. I wish you all the best, send lots of hugs and you have both my Masters and my sympathy. xx | |
| 7 Apr 11, 8:47 AM Rosie_Cheaks UK(NE), 6 yrs |
My heart goes out to you. Will be thinking of you in the days, weeks, months ahead. Rosie x | |
| 7 Apr 11, 8:50 AM Rounded_With_An_Edge UK(WC), 5 yrs |
My thought's are with you and your's. R.I.P. to your loved one. G. | |
| 7 Apr 11, 8:51 AM Aristaeus UK(RG), 2 yrs |
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my heart & warmest wishes go out to you. A. | |
| 7 Apr 11, 8:56 AM Adwhored UK(BN), 10 yrs  |
Loss is awful, irrelevant of it's type. It's how we react to it, what it means to us and how we handle it. You're clearly reaching out for answers and maybe hope that something we can say may help as we may understand as the people around you don't. We won't, not because we don't want to, we do. But because it's about you as a person. Time doesn't heal, you develop and cope in that time creating strategies that work for you. Go see a good therapist or counsellor trained to deal with grief. They won't try and make you better, they won't judge nor question, they will listen and help you enable yourself to cope. Cruse are great as are many others. I wish you well on this painful journey. Debs x "Woman in her greatest perfection was made to serve and obey man." John Knox | |
| 7 Apr 11, 9:06 AM glx101 UK(B), 20 mths |
I am sorry, truly sorry for your loss. I am sure the community will support you at this painful time. With deepest sympathy. G | |
| 7 Apr 11, 9:20 AM shady_lady UK(MK), 3 yrs |
Loss and grief are truely the hardest emotions we have to deal with. I lost someone very close just over a year ago. I still cry and grieve but I'm learning to laugh and remember without sadness. All I can say is let the grief come, work through it and don't bottle it up or deny it. Don't feel guilty or try to behave as if everything is fine. If you want to cry then cry, if you want to scream and shout and howl (I did several times) then do so. You will feel angry, sad, lost, lonely, unable to make decisions. It will pass eventually and you will start to pick up the threads of life again. Accepting this is part of bereavement and not bottling it up will help you get through it. One day you will suddenly realise that you are making progress. Memories will make you smile instead of causing sharp pains and life will begin to have meaning once more. Meanwhile my thoughts and hugs are with you. Take care of yourself, your beloved Master would want you to do that I'm sure. Cheers | |
| 7 Apr 11, 9:22 AM Dark_Cherry UK(B), 2 yrs    |
Oh sweetheart, my heart goes out to you. Know that people here understand and are here for you. x Fuck labels. Labels suck. I am a filthy, slutty, sadistic princess |
