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Sleeping in a Collar (47)

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7 Apr 11, 7:06 PM
Toran1
UK(G), 4 yrs

Try a Turian/Eternity style collar for sleeping in. The are usually worn loose enough for your Master to easily grab with his entire fist inside so it should not constrict your neck. If you want to see a pick of one check out my girl @Blackheart_K 's profile pic.

7 Apr 11, 7:18 PM
xAdamx

UK(SE), 9 yrs

jules9 wrote:

inappropriate wrote:
I don't mean to sound patronising, but have you tried having it a bit looser by night, just while you get used to it?

He does loosen it for me, I suppose I could ask for it to be loosened one final notch, but to be fair it's pretty loose already - as in I can fit four fingers in comfortably.

We've tried the other way, having it tighter so its a constant feeling, in the hope I get used to the pressure, but I end up being unable to get to sleep for a long time and then am woken by it anyway.

I'll ask him if we can try that and see if it helps.

XxX

Mine has a all metal stainless steel collar locked with an allan key from eternity collars. Fortunately for her it fits and has another clearence room between throat and metal, just enough for me to put 2 fingers through should I need to..she sleeps, eats, bathes, wears it to work and it only comes off for the oil of hinge and a change of colour coating.

If yours needs to made looser it's the wrong size..have your neck measured and go for steel...He will love it and so will you.

I am the reason cut throat razor's have been banned.

9 Apr 11, 10:18 PM
Witchy_Wench
UK, 4 yrs

I have read this thread with great interest as this is something that I have really struggled with. I can't wear anything around my neck at night - it is just so uncomfortable. It makes me feel irritable and means that I cannot sleep at all. I have also woken up with a panic attack when wearing one in bed. I can't even wear a necklace as I yank on it in my sleep and when I wake up, there's red lines all round my neck as though someone has tried to murder me in my sleep! Yes I clearly have issues.

It's such a shame though as my Dom would love me to wear one and it does carry such a strong symbol. I do wear collars during play and I have several necklaces to wear during the day though. Maybe we should try the ritual described for taking the collar off and putting it on again morning and evening.

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10 Apr 11, 12:05 AM
Voxxxx
UK(M), 23 mths

The Mistress has me wear a leather studded dog collar which is padlocked. Usually She'll remove it but sometimes She doesn't. I've never had any problems whatsoever sleeping in it..

10 Apr 11, 12:53 AM
Social_Sub
UK(SW), 18 mths

Me too - it took me a long time to get used to it. Eventually just loosening the collar until I could sleep, and then gradually tightening it over the next few weeks did the trick.

10 Apr 11, 11:12 AM
Intelligencia
UK(GU), 5 yrs

TheElders wrote:
Last night we tried loosening to the last hole, which when I was awake seemed like a silly level of loosness, but as someone mentioned your neck really does relax and seem to "swell" in the night. It was great and I slept right through!!!!

It's so lovely to hear that you have managed to resolve this, you may find that, over time, as you get used to it you can start to tighten it hole by hole, see how it goes and take it at your own pace.

So very happy for you and well done for your perseverance.

-x-

Where is the wisdom we have lost in knowledge, where is the knowledge we have lost in information? T S Eliot

10 Apr 11, 11:43 AM
ScarletLetter
UK, 2 yrs

xAdamx wrote:

jules9 wrote:

inappropriate wrote:
I don't mean to sound patronising, but have you tried having it a bit looser by night, just while you get used to it?

He does loosen it for me, I suppose I could ask for it to be loosened one final notch, but to be fair it's pretty loose already - as in I can fit four fingers in comfortably.

I'll ask him if we can try that and see if it helps.

XxX

If yours needs to made looser it's the wrong size..have your neck measured and go for steel...He will love it and so will you.

My boy's the same. Steel with an allen key and never takes it of, sleeps in it no problem. We did remove it once for a scan in hospital and he found it very odd - so you get to a point where it's the other way round, you feel uncomfortable without, rather then with it.

Edited 10 Apr 11, 11:45 AM by ScarletLetter