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Not your body (43)

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30 Mar 11, 8:55 PM
ClassAct2005
UK(N), 7 yrs

There was (for me anyway) a very erotic thread once on takeninhand about a husband's right (in a relationship where this was agreed) to impregnate his wife when he chose. Of course that is only where he also has promised to love and care for her and their children forever etc but still that must surely be one of the biggest rights a husband or partner might have over someone he owns.

The issue within a couple of how you determine when you have children and how many you have is a very big one in all types of relationships.

30 Mar 11, 9:08 PM
Dekkard
15 mths

Do whatever you wish.

But there may be consequences.

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30 Mar 11, 9:28 PM
Shypeachybottom
UK, 20 mths

xDLPMx wrote:

TheFalconer wrote:

xDLPMx wrote:
No, I'm glad you posted this, because I'm the same - I've been reading this board feeling slightly bemused. We have the same restrictions, too - orgasm control, control over what I wear, over going to the toilet, etc - but it still feels like my body is mine. I've actually been following this thread and trying to analyse why this is the case when it's not for others. I think in a weird way I actually feel like my body is mine more than my mind or my will.

I wonder if the difference is about the rules specifically relating to the body itself - tattoos, piercings, and to a lesser degree hair - and more importantly about the rules actually having been a point of difference of opinion between Dom and sub and therefore actively "enforced"

I think you're right. I think if I really wanted, say, a tattoo (I don't!) and he wouldn't let me.....but no, that still wouldn't feel like it was about my body, it would feel like it was about my will and my ability to make decisions for myself. Hmmm.

You said "I think in a weird way I actually feel like my body is mine more than my mind or my will"... so can you think of the first time when the realisation hit (mentally or emotionally) that you were his?

There's a somebody i'm longing to see, i hope that he turns out to be, someone to watch over me
i'm a little lamb who's lost in the wood, i know i could always be good, to one who'll watch over me (Ella Fitzgerald)

30 Mar 11, 9:54 PM
Tattooslave
UK(DY), 4 yrs

My mistress was Scottish (i am english) and she instructed me to have a Scottish flag tattooed on my bum, which I did for my birthday present! She also had me pierced in seven places. When I serve I do so without limit. The flag has since been covered by a larger scene...

Edited 30 Mar 11, 9:56 PM by Tattooslave

31 Mar 11, 12:27 AM
jools_searching
UK(WD), 20 mths
£

My own eureka moment came a very short while ago - I was tied down legs open, and my Master was debating whether or not to use the bulldog clamps which I find insanely painful. I realised that it was entirely his choice, hell, that I was entirely his, and he could choose either way, whether I wanted it or not.

I knew that he controlled me before - intellectually. But this was the first time I felt it viscerally.

31 Mar 11, 1:09 AM
Neophites_jewel
AU, 4 yrs

ClassAct2005 wrote:
There was (for me anyway) a very erotic thread once on takeninhand about a husband's right (in a relationship where this was agreed) to impregnate his wife when he chose. Of course that is only where he also has promised to love and care for her and their children forever etc but still that must surely be one of the biggest rights a husband or partner might have over someone he owns.

The issue within a couple of how you determine when you have children and how many you have is a very big one in all types of relationships.

This IS how it is in O/our relationship. i keep track of my fertility and W/we will have another child if and when Master is ready. It's amazing to know that He has that much control over such a major part of my life, and i think my 'eureka' moment was probably when i was pregnant with O/our son and W/we had a discussion about why that came to be. And it reoccurs every time i've had a long day of looking after the children, am completely exhausted and would love nothing more than to fall into bed, and He says 'Strip.'

"Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power." - Abraham Lincoln

1 Apr 11, 2:07 PM
ClassAct2005
UK(N), 7 yrs

Lucky you.

Neophites_jewel wrote:

The issue within a couple of how you determine when you have children and how many you have is a very big one in all types of relationships.

2 Apr 11, 2:31 PM
ushaben
UK(NW), 2 yrs

I think that my Owner's possession of my body really came home to me when my menopause started. When He first owned me, i could have had children, but now i cannot.

2 Apr 11, 2:34 PM
ClassAct2005
UK(N), 7 yrs

I suppose that's why if you are very very submissive the hoice of original partner is so important. I wouldn't even marry my chidlren's father until we'd established issues like children. It's compatibilty. Someone keen for babies who settles down in a D/s relationwhip with someone who h ates them and has had the snip is not going to a good choice compared with a man who already has mapped out in his head weekends playing cricket with 4 children in the garden.

ushaben wrote:
I think that my Owner's possession of my body really came home to me when my menopause started. When He first owned me, i could have had children, but now i cannot.

24 Apr 11, 5:38 PM
Calimero_rslw
UK(DE), 23 mths

I read this with interest and realised that since I've been with my Master I've never doubted my masters ownership of my body...

It just feels right.... I will ask for my hair to be cut and only tattoo I will get is when I have my masters mark... my clothes are picked for me... I play with the men my Master choses, to do as requested...

I do not get my orgasms withheld though... as my Master does not gain any pleasure from that.

Calimero - owned and collared slave and baby girl of masterq81

I am and always have been my Masters Slave, from the day I was born I was his. I just didn't realise it till My Master claimed me.

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