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| 16 Mar 11, 1:01 PM viragoangel UK(FY), 5 yrs |
Yes. A "DOM" i met thru here some 3 and a half years ago tried to rape me in the car park of the pub we had met at for a quiet social drink. He'd ordered food (including something i'm allergic to) and when i refused to remove my top in the restaurant so he could see my breasts he got quite cross shall we say. Told him i was leaving and he said he wanted a blow job in the car park...it was "his right as a dominant male". I told him to give himself one because i wasn't and then left. In the car park he followed me to my vehicle and then attempted to rape me. The whole episode is rather more complicated but you can get the gist from what i've written. FWIW..he is still VERY active on here and CM and i believe the Manchester scene. Look out girls.x jules. | ||
| 16 Mar 11, 1:20 PM corsetrich UK(BS), 5 yrs   |
Yes i have a horror story. An ex domme who i had only just started seeing at the time. wired me up to an old tens machine that i had played with and got working. I had marked all the scales to where i felt my maximum tolerence was. She in her wisdom decided that these were very near the maximum limits of the machine and turned it on full power. I pulled so hard on the wrist cuffs I had been suspended by that my head actually hit the ceiling and i thought i was going to die from the whole muscle spasm that took over my body from electrodes on my cock and sticking out from where the sun don't shine. This happened five plus years ago and i still find electro sex one of my most scariest forms of S&M and although i would love to find the pleasure i used to gain from this fear. It has become a major wall that i can't seem to overcome. I must add that i actually still seen the domme in question for 12 months after this incident but we never played with the tens machine again. | ||
| 16 Mar 11, 1:28 PM Gettin_better UK, 21 mths |
I too know someone who was actually raped by a bloke claiming to be a master... her belief is, he was using M/s as a cover and means of grooming... he was very active on a number of other sites and while his primary account has been deleted, that doesnt mean he is not operating as someone else... or lurking here for that matter. Why would IC be different from anywhere else? Be who you are. Want what you have. Do what you can | ||
| 16 Mar 11, 1:45 PM Bambi_x UK(NW), 2 yrs |
Yes, I had a bad date that resulted in a guy stalking & harassing me. Scary stuff. He stopped when I threatened to called the police. It was part naivety of my behalf and part psychosis on his. Fistful of love.. | ||
| 16 Mar 11, 2:10 PM meganne_in_spain UK(PR), 4 yrs |
Sure have and he is still here on IC ... I posted this on 11.06.10 ......... I did contact admin and was advised that naming and shaming went against IC policy I've had a Dom visitor here since Sunday night, supposed to stay till tonight. I met him, and his wife, sister and various friends in Benidorm a while ago and had a lovely time. I have a large log cabin in my garden which could make an ideal dungeon ... he and his wife were interested in investing in it so he came over for a fact finding look. We had had a lovely time until yesterday .... then things went rather ''tits up''!!!! We went out in my home town yesterday, a very small sleepy Spanish pueblo with a tight nit Brit community ... from about 3 pm ... he got pissed up, but by 6pm he'd told 2 female friends of mine that he'd like to spank them and that I really enjoyed it when he spanked me!!!!! I kept trying to change the subject, helped by one of them who fortunatley knows about my kink --- he was so rude, provocative and suggestive all night it was terrible! We had a row when we got back here ... I had a go at him for 'outing' me to people I have to live with ... people he'd never met before, one of whom is mother of my daughters friend --- he wasn't a bit bothered!!!! I also said I couldn't possibly consider any sort of business venture with someone who could behave so indiscreetly. He wanted me to take him to airport there and then ... I wouldn't as I'd been drinking and said I'd do it in morning but would need fuel money ---- when I said I charge 35€ each way he blew his top!!!! (He owes me for the pick up and a few bar tabs ... I'm out of pocket by about €50 this week ... not a lot I know, but annoying!!) So ... poor upset Dom stormed off to the cabin!!! I waited an hour or so and went down to make sure he'd got down the hill safely and that he was ok .... He'd gone ... disappeared ... but before he went he had turned on every light, every fan, all the water taps, the mobile air con unit, broken a glass and put it down the loo then pissed in it, left lit cigs on the wooden floors... 2 of which have left scorch marks so could have set fire to cabin ... endangering my adult son in his cabin only a few yards away, and stolen a few things! Needless to say we all feel a bit sick and very angry! Nil Carborundum Illegitimo | ||
| 16 Mar 11, 7:46 PM scottisharchie UK(EH), 6 yrs |
and not all of us have blogged about coming home to our rabbits bubbling in a pot but do think there are enough things posted to give folks the right idea about safety A woman's submission is a gift to be cherished | ||
| 16 Mar 11, 7:54 PM Dekkard 15 mths |
It was a darrrk and stormy night.... D -----------------spidery-scrawl----------------- | ||
| 16 Mar 11, 8:04 PM male2shemaid UK(SA), 4 yrs |
1. A Couple who I spent about 3 months getting to know via memos, emails, instant messages and telephone conversations who seemed sane, balanced and normal. Agreed to meet up for a friendly face to face chat on the Mid Wales/England border. Two days before the meeting they telephone me out of the blue and began an abusive rant at gay people - accused me of being sick, twisted, evil, perverted person. Called me a faggot and a 'homo' and worse. Hurled abuse at me. They still had a profile on this site when I last looked to see if they were still here just before Christmas. 2. Another Couple - both Dom supposedly. Both worked in senior admin/lecturing roles in a then Poly in Huddersfield or Hartlepool. Can't recall which one. This was 20 years ago. Seemed sane, normal, very intelligent. Did all the usual safety checks of chatting online, talking on the phone numerous times, swapping photos and contact details, etc, before agreeing to meet. So met up, had a meal and a drink, chatted. They seemed very normal. Decided to go for a walk along the banks of the River Seven in nearby Tewksbury where we had eaten lunch. At which point they wished me to strip naked, be bound and get into the back of their car so that I could be driven to their home where they would, their words, 'keep me in sack-cloth'. I declined. They went mental. He was a big, strong bugger. She was as bad as him. At which point I realised that the country walk and car-park on the bank of the river we were walking along was deserted - only us 3 around. I stood my ground. I am still here. They were nutcases. Edited 16 Mar 11, 11:41 PM by male2shemaid | ||
| 16 Mar 11, 8:15 PM ladybabe2 UK(SK), 6 yrs |
l wasn't going to name and shame Don't make them a priority, when they only make you an option... | ||
| 16 Mar 11, 8:19 PM mia  UK(M), 4 yrs       |
There are people out there not to be trusted. One of my first encounters turned out to be a bit psycho... I told him i didn't want to meet up, after our intial meet - but he didn't like this and reminded me (multiple times via voice mail) that he knew my full name, my address, my workplace address, my number... Luckily, all the things he did know and tried to scare me with are all changed now - but i would certainly not trust people again, in the same way i did, letting someone know so much about me before meeting them or gaining face-to-face trust first. Even with face to face meetings, i'd be wary about giving away too many details, as unfortunately there are plenty of skilled psycho liars about, however you have to be a bit RACK about it all and think is it worth the risk? One of the greatest early memories of my kink time was leaving my door off the latch, while i was in bed, waiting for a stranger to let himself in. Ended up being rather yummy, although i don't think i'd do the same thing again, given the chance. x Edited to add, i've had good and bad experiences from here and OKCupid - so don't think it's site specific. You tell me to eat lima beans, I'll eat lima beans Edited 16 Mar 11, 8:25 PM by mia |
