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Lingerie, stockings and heels...why? (76)

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12 Mar 11, 9:13 AM
Mr_Frost
UK(PL), 3 yrs
For me I like high heels stockings and suspenders but no knickers.

Because...

1)They are runway lights bringing you in to land.

2) They cover nothing important and this has the effect of adding the feeling of vulnerability while also enhancing the appearence of a womans legs/hips or in the case of a suspender belt her bum.

3) Ass wiggle/calf strain, ever watched a woman walk in heels? Glorius.

4) Heels are impractical and uncomfortable for all purposes of footware, their only function is to look sexy and that ridiculousness is attractive.

5) click clack, click clack, wonderful sound.

6) They leave the top of the thighs bare for stroking and flashing.

7) They feel nice to touch and apparently they feel nice to wear.

8) You can wear them before, during and after sex without ever having them get in the way while constantly looking attractive (even if they ladder they are still quite interesting in my opinion!).

In the case of why stockings and not tights? easy...they don't make a womans ass look like a bank robers face. :)

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12 Mar 11, 10:14 AM
Badg1Vo
UK(B), 6 yrs
firemynx_B wrote:
You need a pair of heels for authority and presence?

Who knew!

Whatnhappens if they are only 2 and 3/4 inches, does that mean you have no presence?

What happens if a heel snaps, is it the equivalent of a helium balloon, all that authority and presence evaporates?

Interesting ....

Empress_Martine wrote:

Oh if they are at that height, which by the way you can not get its usually 3inch heels and add that to being 5ft 2ins and makes me a little taller. My heels are steel ones so that is not likely to happen.

(Bolding added by Badg1)

E_M has spoken!. FACT. So, do these shoes ("TUK Shoes A7653L ........ 2 3/4 Inch Heel") and boots ("Calf high boot, 2 3/4 inch spike heel") not exist then? Have they measured them wrong?

More probably, E_M is again extrapolating their experiences ("I don't like knife play" / "I haven't seen 2 3/4 inch heels") to become FACT or everyone's experience ("no one should do knife play" / "you can not get 2 3/4 inch heels")

@Empress_Martine, if your 3 inch heels are steel and won't break, what happens if you walk on grass and the heels sink in by 1/4 inch? Do you just loose a little authority? Can you now answer the question you were asked instead of avoiding it by making fallacious statements?.

I'd suggest that if someone has to rely to that extent on "props" for their presence / authority, that whilst they are spending so much time making sure their heels don't break and avoiding soft ground, that they are missing the wider issue of their insecurities / lack of innate 'presence'.

Cheers, Badg1.

Edited 12 Mar 11, 10:21 AM by Badg1Vo

12 Mar 11, 12:56 PM
firemynx_B
UK(B), 11 yrs

I think perhaps the point was lost by you .... Not me.

Never mind :)

ClassAct2005 wrote:
It was a relatively simple point - that the appeal is that you aren't fully dressed so not as if you have a burkha on but you aren't naked either and bits are hidden so it's more erotic for that.

Being totally naked can be very sexy too particularly if the man is fully dressed in a suit.

firemynx_B wrote:
With someone? Or something? Hope that wasn't Freud taking a peek ;)

ClassAct2005 wrote:
Exposure without total exposure (many women look better with someone on than nothing).

"Dear Santa ........ I can explain!"

12 Mar 11, 12:57 PM
firemynx_B
UK(B), 11 yrs

that bit does not do it for me, but I can understand how it might for others ;)

Miss_OL wrote:

Yes. Especially when said man is kneeling with head bowed. Totally irresistable.

"Dear Santa ........ I can explain!"

12 Mar 11, 3:27 PM
lush_london
UK(WC), 6 yrs
Mine's a small sweet sherry :-D

firemynx_B wrote:
I think perhaps the point was lost by you .... Not me.

Never mind :)

ClassAct2005 wrote:
It was a relatively simple point - that the appeal is that you aren't fully dressed so not as if you have a burkha on but you aren't naked either and bits are hidden so it's more erotic for that.

Being totally naked can be very sexy too particularly if the man is fully dressed in a suit.

firemynx_B wrote:
With someone? Or something? Hope that wasn't Freud taking a peek ;)

ClassAct2005 wrote:
Exposure without total exposure (many women look better with someone on than nothing).

12 Mar 11, 4:23 PM
MissKimberley
NL, 8 yrs


I think it's not the material itself that's necessarily sexy (although some people love the material itself rather than the "view"). I think it's that bit of exposed thigh. Most men like stockings best, not tights. Why? The covered leg, then that little glimpse of thigh at the top before you get to her knickers and/or suspender belt. That little region where her girlie bits are.

It's the same with thigh high boots, the appeal is very similar.

Or at least, that's what I've come to understand :-)

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12 Mar 11, 4:42 PM
Scribbles
UK(RH), 4 yrs
TheSilverFox wrote:
I know what it is for me:

These items are totally feminine. There is no "masculine" equivalent. Therefore when a woman wears these items she is, to me, celebrating her femininity and proclaiming herself proudly to be a woman. And I find that incredibly sexy....

Simples...

So are tights and hairnets but they don't have quite the same effect :)

(sorry to appear out of the blue)

13 Mar 11, 8:46 PM
Satinio
UK(NW), 3 yrs
As an admirer, i love both the visual appeal of how hosiery creates such beautiful silouettes and heels lengthen the leg, tighten the bum and make her stand more upright and walk more purposefully.

To wear them ways feels glorious, especially when you move around. To wear them for someone else is even better and I love the feeling of being packaged and dressed for sex and being desired in someone elses eyes.

Of course the best of all is to have sex in any combination while all parties are wearing hosiery and heels. In the past I've found it so sexy that I've gone so far as to do things when dolled-up in Agent Provocateur and heels that I would never consider doing otherwise. I guess there comes a point when the passion takes over.

13 Mar 11, 9:04 PM
foxgirl
UK(LN), 22 mths
I shall continue to maintain that naked under tights that one then rips, uh, 'access holes' into is very very sexy. But I may be a minority, ha.
13 Mar 11, 9:12 PM
chartreuse
UK(BA), 6 yrs

I love how wearing them makes me feel and I adore the reaction most males have to them.

You know damned well you feel sexy and many men become putty in your hands - it's probably best not to dress in this provocative way when in a vanilla social environment (e.g. among vanilla friends/couples) when other females and their partners are there.

Other women (particularly vanilla ones) tend not to like their man to pay another woman any attention and... most men would be unable to resist casting a glance (if not more) in the direction of a woman dressed for sexual attraction/arousal.

Men love that a woman will dress in such a way... other women don't seem to be so keen, unless they know their partner well enough not to be bothered by them doing it and/or it's done in such a way so as not to cause offence.

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"Sorry" is a meaningless word - unless it is demonstrated, via actions or a change in behaviour, that is it meant.

Edited 18 Apr 11, 7:30 AM by chartreuse

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