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Is 'mystery' exciting? (34)

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9 Mar 11, 12:50 PM
gentlemusings
UK(M), 19 mths


I find nothing sexier then someone revealing their mysteries! So for me its the candid relevations not the mystery of a person thats sexy :)
9 Mar 11, 12:56 PM
The_Knave
UK(N), 4 yrs

LondonShyGirl wrote:
^^^ Completely agree with the above - anticipation and trepidation is *very* sexy :-D

Yes imho, some of the most subtle but stimulating tools a dom and sub exchange - and more through communication and trust than anything else if done well - although "you don't have to have a dungeon, shackles and whips to create anticiaption and trepidation, but they help"

:D

LondonShyGirl wrote:
^^ Agree too.

I should add that there is a time and a place for sharing personal information - some you should share sooner (e.g. if you are poly or in a relationship or what you are looking for) and some you should share later once you know them better (e.g. the details of what turns you on or past experiences), but what a person feels comfortable sharing and when will vary by person.

Agree totally here - I have made blunders, mistakes and gaffs over a few years here, and have arrived at a process of straightforwardness - but even then it's easy to mis-judge things in other ways. Here's to giving up blundering for Lent.

9 Mar 11, 1:03 PM
Monkey_Wench
UK(B), 20 mths

Clo_Domme wrote:
I'm afraid I am not at liberty to discuss.

But your profile pic has a face on it. We all know know who YOU are!

'Carve your name into my arm. Instead of stressed, I lie here charmed.'

9 Mar 11, 1:03 PM
Monkey_Wench
UK(B), 20 mths

gentlemusings wrote:

I find nothing sexier then someone revealing their mysteries! So for me its the candid relevations not the mystery of a person thats sexy :)

Completely agree!

'Carve your name into my arm. Instead of stressed, I lie here charmed.'

9 Mar 11, 1:09 PM
anncat
UK(ST), 7 yrs

I never really think a man is being mysterious in a sexy way... just hiding his wife or S/O from view !

but it was not your fault but mine and it was your heart on the line I really fucked it up this time

9 Mar 11, 1:18 PM
The_Knave
UK(N), 4 yrs

Or perhaps trying to remember if he's missed your birthday.
9 Mar 11, 1:23 PM
Black0rchid
UK, 2 yrs

SimpleSoul wrote:

Makes it very difficult to establish a rapport or chemistry when the other person is nameless and puts nothing of themselves into the conversation.

A relationship is meant to be about sharing. Communication is meant to be a two way process.

and that is a fact.

Az me shloft mit hint, shtayt men oyf mit flay : or, Quien con perros se acuesta, con pulgas se levanta.
Meaning ~ If you lie down with the dogs, you get up with the fleas.

9 Mar 11, 1:54 PM
wonderer
UK, 5 yrs

I don;t know whether it's sexy or not, but quite a few people have commented that my question mark (whether red on black or blue & red on white) is intriguing and they want to meet me if I'm at a munch or event. I have a feeling that in my case, the question mark may be more intriguing than the real me. But that's okay.

"Imagination is more important than knowledge" (Albert Einstein)
Ubi caritas et amor, Deus ibi est. http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/226772/

9 Mar 11, 1:58 PM
the1whoserves
UK(DN), 6 yrs

i think (know) MYS TERI,, is exciting and sexy also a very lovely lady as well.. that should earn me a few brownie points with her,,creep creep,,

Edited 9 Mar 11, 1:59 PM by the1whoserves

9 Mar 11, 2:47 PM
gentlemusings
UK(M), 19 mths


anncat wrote:
I never really think a man is being mysterious in a sexy way... just hiding his wife or S/O from view !

so suspicious, but mostly true :( lol

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