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| 7 Mar 11, 10:43 AM mistressjezabel UK(SW), 3 yrs £  |
I honestly doubt you will get very honest answers on that question on a public forum. I know of a few 'lifestyle' pro Mistresses, who arent into it at all.But they wouldnt be open about that. | |
| 7 Mar 11, 12:28 PM lisal 9 yrs |
I am always intrigued if this actually matters to anyone. Having said that I also think that it's not a straight choice between job and lifestyle My domme doesn't "do" lifestyle but really enjoys sessioning and would carry on with one or two of us in private if it wasn't her job Some (not aiming at you Nina) seem to think that unless you are out and about on the "scene" you can't be into what you are doing
Edited 7 Mar 11, 6:48 PM by lisal | |
| 7 Mar 11, 1:55 PM Miss_Katie_TV UK(SL), 4 yrs £ |
Hi Nina, If I didn't need the money I would still play, I have done it for years both as a client to Pds in the past and with friends. I love my work and have met lots of lovely men through it so yes I would continue. But as Tara said it would give the opportunity to do more sessions that I really like, for me that is as a CP Sub, I just love being a naughty school girl or niece to a nice gentleman and getting a well smacked bottom. In fact I do see a couple of gentlemen now and again who were clients on a no fee basis as we get on so well and are now friends. I hope things pick up for you work wise. Katie | |
| 7 Mar 11, 6:29 PM Nina_Jay UK(BS), 3 yrs £ |
I see your point and didn't really think it through before asking. No one is going to say they do it mainly for the money on a public forum though I'm sure some do. I hated my old job and did that only for money but I worked for someone else and it didn't matter who knew well except for my boss at the time I guess.
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| 7 Mar 11, 7:03 PM Lady_Toza_Scarlet UK, 5 yrs £ |
Yes certainly. Wouldn't dream of stopping. If money were no object, I'd have a superb playspace built and make it available for parties and private play. | |
| 7 Mar 11, 7:06 PM MissKimberley NL, 8 yrs     |
I'd still be playing if I had lots of cash. In fact, I'd buy a period mansion and convert it into a luxury kinky hotel with many different rooms, all bedrooms with funky ensuite and their own play furniture, dungeons in the basement, beautiful vaulted ceilings... wine bar and lounge area... restaurant with O-rings attached to each chair for attaching one's subby. Puppy or kitten bowls available from the scantily clad waiters and waitresses. Pony facilities in the stables as well as outdoor training for wayward slaves... A kitchen vegetable garden where slaves do the gardening... Nice maids cleaning the bedrooms... Expensive cars driven by very accommodating chauffeurs for your station or airport collection (part of the service, no extras, naturally). Free "turndown" service for every Dominant guest. Room service meals with special optional extras... Can you tell I've thought about this? “During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act” - George Orwell | |
| 7 Mar 11, 7:15 PM Lady_Lancashire 23 mths £ |
Money no object? I'd have paid house staff in Victorian garb with physical punishment as necessary written into their contracts. Bit of a swap-around but that's my pipe dream. The Red Rose Whispers Of Passion (J o'B R) | |
| 7 Mar 11, 7:19 PM MistressRouge UK(B), 6 yrs £ |
My empire would just expand, Lady of the Manor comes to mind. I will always be involved in BDSM as a lifestyle, for many decades to come, here's hoping  And yes, I would still be Pro Domme for money/tribute etc, however I would make extra special allowances for My special ones. My S&M Night http://clubrack.co.uk/
Saturday March the 5th - Strap-On & Bi Slut Night. Edited 7 Mar 11, 7:20 PM by MistressRouge | |
| 7 Mar 11, 7:19 PM MistressRouge UK(B), 6 yrs £ |
Sounds like heaven to Me 
My S&M Night http://clubrack.co.uk/
Saturday March the 5th - Strap-On & Bi Slut Night. | |
| 7 Mar 11, 7:24 PM MissKimberley NL, 8 yrs |
Just need some wealthy investors... I'm sure I could make it profitable within 2 years “During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act” - George Orwell |
